TFG Thoughts: The passage of time

So recently, I’ve celebrated both a birthday and an anniversary.  As I get older, I’m starting to realize that it’s going to be harder to attract twinks, lol.  Although I do look very young for my age.  Most people still think I’m in my 30s.  It’s a pity I’m cautious about showing face pics, because most people do find me hot.  🙂  And some twinks do have a daddy fetish, so I guess that can help.

Although to be frank, as I get older, meeting up with twinks and guys to tie up, while definitely fun, is taking a much lower priority in my life.  I’m spending more time just enjoying my non-kinky life, work, free time, and relationships.  Kink is a very large part of my life, but it certainly isn’t the only part.  I have a lot of other recreations and interests that are completely unrelated.

And in terms of relationships… I have been with my husband now for nearly 10 years.  Not married that entire time, but together exclusively.  It’s hard to believe it’s been that long… really, the time has just flown by.  Back when I was in my 20s and 30s, I think I would have doubted I’d ever be in such a long term relationship.  I sure remember what the single life and dating scene were like.  I remember a certain loneliness.  But with that trade off comes a bit more freedom to see and be with a variety of people.  On the other hand, being in a relationship means respecting and giving time for the other person’s interests, even if they are not yours, which means a certain amount of sacrifice.

I’m very, very lucky and thankful that we’re still very much enjoying each others company and spending time together.  And we are still very supportive of each other.  So far, I wouldn’t trade my life experience for anything.  Except maybe a few more twinks now and again.  😀


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