Day: May 15, 2016

Time to get personal again

Time to get personal again

For a while, felt like something’s been missing from this blog. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it, but something didn’t quite feel the same.  And then I realized:  I’m not writing about myself very much.  Not showing a lot of the human side behind the fetish.  In the past, I’ve had people write me and say that was one aspect of this blog they used to enjoy… it’s not just a collection of sexy pics, but you also get to hear a bit about the person behind them.  So I’m going to be trying to get back to that.

A few reasons I strayed away in the first place.  One was just lack of time.  Quite simply, it’s faster to just make posts full of pics.  Writing is much more time consuming.

Another reason was that after writing for a long time, I was beginning to run out of topics to discuss or share.  I try not to repeat myself unless a topic warrants repeating (and many still struggle with the use of the word “faggot” in our kink community). To degree, the well had run dry, and I didn’t really know what else to write about, so I mostly just stopped.

Lastly, I wanted to maintain personal privacy.  I’ve been married for sometime now, and my husband is quite fanatical about maintaining his sense of privacy, which in turn limits what I can write about.  As I get older, I see wisdom in that, and even I want to remain private about many aspects of my life.  But as some time has passed and I’ve been doing a bit of thinking, I do believe I can find a number of topics that I can discuss openly, and still keep some things to myself.

Not sure how long this will last, but I will try to write something about myself or my thoughts every Sunday, until I can’t think of anything anymore, lol.  We’ll see how it goes.  I hope you’ll enjoy it, and get to know me a little be better in the coming weeks, if not months or more.