TFG Exclusive:  NaveKink, Part 4

TFG Exclusive: NaveKink, Part 4

Can’t go wrong with being mummified, can you?  I will confess this wasn’t my best work, but I only had limited time left.

Gear used:  Collar, Leash Lead Gag, Spandex hood, Hitachi Magic Wand

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Tied his toes to his cock and balls, to make sure I could enjoy the view

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And who doesn’t like a Hitachi Magic Wand on their rock hard cock?  I haven’t had any complaints yet…

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But before he could shoot his load, I felt his entire body should be fully encased.  Head and feet.  And that made him cum… quite a bit, as you can see below…

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Sadly, I’m rarely in the area where I got to meet this guy.  We’d love to meet again, but not sure if it’s in the cards.  By the time you’ve read this, he’ll have moved to a very kinky area (though sadly, not near me), so I’m sure we’ll be seeing more of him via other Doms.  Maybe you’ll be lucky enough to meet him!  And believe me, if we do meet again, I’ll be sure to share more pics.  Hope you enjoyed!

TFG Exclusive:  NaveKink, Part 3

TFG Exclusive: NaveKink, Part 3

This time, I tried a bit of isolation play.  There was a large closet that he was able to fit into.  I tied him to it in various positions, shut the door, and made him moan when a certain amount of time passed.  If he was incorrect about the amount of time passed, he’d be punished.  Fortunately (or perhaps unfortunately, depending on your point of view), he was remarkably good at the game…

Notice in the second pose, he’s wearing a gag with a ring in the front, which I tied to his ankles and feet.  That meant every struggle of his body would be felt in his plugged mouth.  You can get that gag here.  He liked it quite a bit.

Gear used:  Collar, Leash Lead Gag, Blindfold, Spandex hood, Deluxe restraints

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A little tied up slave is locked away in that closet…

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Used that same ring gag and tied his mouth, hands, and hard cock all together.  He liked that as well, as you can see.  Every struggle tugged at his mouth, hands and cock… yet he couldn’t stroke it… not quite, despite being on his knees.  I’m such a terrible tease like that…

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But we still have one more set of this hot little 18 yo.  And you do notice he’s shaved, right?  Even hotter.  Not that you’re complaining, I’m sure…

TFG Exclusive:  NaveKink, Part 2

TFG Exclusive: NaveKink, Part 2

Time to get his shirt off, don’t you think? And bare those feet…

Super hot and soft size 10 feet, and yes, a bit smelly.  He should know; those are his socks on his face.  And that little bit of sock lint left on his soles?  I’m pretty sure I licked them clean.

Gear used:  Collar, Ball Gag, Blindfold, Spandex hood, Deluxe restraints

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Later I released him, but had him abuse himself for my pleasure.  Had him pinch his nipples, and rub his feet all over my crotch.

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But we still have much more to see of this young little slave…

TFG Exclusive:  NaveKink, Part 1

TFG Exclusive: NaveKink, Part 1

I know how much you all like the young twinks.  I was fortunate enough to meet this 18 year old during some travels.

His shirt is a reference to the TV show Sherlock, but I thought it was also appropriate for chastity.  Sadly, I didn’t have that with me, but I can say he didn’t cum until I allowed him.

Begin with a quick collaring and inspection.  Had him get on his knees, and once leashed, service my shoes and feet a bit.  He didn’t really have a foot fetish, but he did have to demonstrate his subservience.

Gear used:  Collar, Blindfold, leash

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I love how he posed like a true slut here.

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And not to toot my own horn, but this was one of my hotter hogties.  I don’t always begin with them clothed, but I did this time, and I think the results speak for themselves.  But as you can see, the clothes are beginning to shed.  Lots more to cum later…

 

Top Posts of 2017 #1: Updated Hotel & Travel Tips-2017 edition

Perhaps shockingly, the number one post of the year isn’t an explicitly kinky one, but a more practical one.  Back in 2014, I posted about some tips I had about doing a scene in a hotel room. Thought I’d re-present it, along with a few new illustrative pics of mine, and a minor UPDATES.  Seems it resonated pretty well!  But I do stand by these tips, and I’m guessing many of you do as well!


So I imagine many of us had to use hotel rooms for bondage play.  And sometimes, nothing like a semi-seedy looking hotel can add to the hotness.

But often, the bondage opportunities can be lacking.  I think many of us have been disappointed by seeing this sight under a hotel bed, a rather common one in cheap rooms.

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A solid box frame, all the way to the floor. Creating absolutely no possible tie down points to the bed.

Now, it is possible to buy a full under the bed bondage frame.  Fort Troff also sells one with slightly higher quality restraints included–visit here and search for “under bed” and it will come up.  And if you have the budget (thought they’re not really that expensive, about $50-$60), and the space in your bag to pack it, that would be the most ideal solution.

But in the “why didn’t I think of this sooner” category, it dawned on me that by using a couple of 12 foot lengths of rope slid between the mattress and the box spring, you can create your own frame of sorts.  It’s not perfect, as it could possibly be moved around by an especially squirmy victim, but it will do in most situations, and I’ve never had too much of a problem with it.  The weight of the mattress and the person on it keeps it pretty well in place.  You would weave as many ropes as you’d like to create all the tie down points you need.  And then when finished, you can remove the ropes and put them to use in other positions.

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I try to have about equal amounts of rope showing on each side of the bed.

Another aspect of cheaper hotels I like is that they often have these “open closets” that invite some interesting overhead bondage opportunities.  And sometimes there will be space underneath a sink counter to “store” a slave, which could be quite humiliating.  Not to mention the bondage position possibilities in a bathroom and tub.

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FeatherTicklish, in a solo session

I always try to scout out pics of the rooms beforehand with a little bit of internet research.  I have occasionally booked a hotel specifically on the basis of their chairs and furniture.  Often, hotels have chairs with solid backs without any tie down points, so I try to avoid that whenever possible.

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Some hotel chairs have more tie down opportunities than others. Try to scout out pics of the room online to see what sort of chairs, tables, closets, etc. they have. Do keep in mind the pics may be outdated, or that furniture can vary depending on the sort of room you get (single, double, suite, etc.).

UPDATE:  Occasionally I get surprised with a closet wardrobe, but I can find ways to put them to good use.  As you can see.

In terms of packing gear, I’ve found those large ziploc “big bags” are pretty ideal.  (Note:  UPDATE below.)  They’re pretty durable, and you can keep your regular packing and your kink packing separate.  This one is their “Large” size, and it perfectly fits a Hitachi Magic Wand (which you can get here or here, and a cordless version at Stockroom–just note the cordless version must be fully charged before it will work)  and other gear.  They also sell XL and XXL and up, but the Large size fits well into most carry on luggage, so that’s my personal preference. That said, the Large size can be the trickiest one to find… I’ve found a lot of stores only carry the XL and up sizes, so you may have to scout around a bit or order them online, such as Amazon.  I ended up finding mine at Lowe’s, hardware chain in the USA, but even they didn’t have many, so your experience may vary.

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The marks on the right of the bag are centimeters. Not sure why they put that on there, but I’m sure it could come in handy for something. It goes up to 34 centimeters, in case you’re interested.

Keeping your equipment  in it’s own ziploc makes it very easy to grab your gear quickly, without having to dig through your bag (“Now, where did that muzzle go?”).  And once done, it has the added advantage of containing any drool, lube, or cum they may have acquired through usage away from your regular clothes. If you wanted you could have separate bags, one for restraints, one for gags, and one for toys.  For the sake of saving space, I try to cram it all into one, but one is certainly not limited to that.

Speaking of Hitachi Magic Wands (and I highly recommend them–did I mention there’s quite an array of attachments available for them?), if you decide to use the corded version, having at least a 3 foot extension cord comes in helpful way more than you’d think.  Often, the outlets are not conveniently located next to the bed.  Believe me, you don’t want to be all ready to go with your victim securely bound, only to realize the cord doesn’t reach them.  I speak from experience here.

UPDATE:  One problem I had with the ziploc bags was the unpacking for the scene.  It can get very messy.  I’ve since tried out these eBags Slim Packing Cubes (which can also be found on Amazon), and they’ve been amazing.  I got this assorted size pack, and it’s made the unpacking a breeze.  I just put the bags in a drawer, and unzip.  And they fit perfectly into my luggage.  The Hitachi Magic Wand fits inside the large bag without a problem.  Only small catch:  since the top is a mesh, items with prongs (like a wartenberg wheel) are best put in a small ziplock inside the bag so they don’t snag.  And when I do have a large item to carry, such as a leather sleepsack, I do put that in the large ziplock.

Some of you really may wonder if I put all this in my carry on bag when traveling via the airport.  The answer is yes.  Even in this day and age, in the USA, traveling with bondage restraints and gags in my carry on bag has never presented a problem for me with TSA security.  Ever.  I’ve even traveled to Europe with bondage gear in my carry on bag and had no problems.  I would hesitate to bring a gas mask in a carry on, as well as spreader bars, because they could be interpreted as weapons.   I did once forget I had some metal spreader bars in my bag, and while they let them through, in one airport, they did get questioned.  And other destinations may have other regulations.  But the USA, after maybe at least 10 different trips with bondage gear in my carry on bag, I’ve only been stopped that one time I had the spreader bars.

If you really want to be sure, here is the current page to the TSA Prohibited Items list.  As you can see, well over 95% of the list are items that could be direct weapons (knives, firearms, flammables, etc.).  There is even a search box where you can ask, “Can I bring my…?”  Although at last check, it didn’t recognize “bondage”, “gag”, “sex toy”, or “restraint”.  But it did recognize “rope”, as well as “handcuffs” (!), and it did say that it’s perfectly fine for checked or carry on luggage, as well as “Adult Toys”.  All that said, I should also add that I pretty much only bring restraints and gags, and some sensory play items, including Wartenberg Wheels.  I am not bringing whips, chains, and the like.  That could be a different story, and may be better suited to checked baggage.  And yes, lube still has to fulfill their 3-1-1 rule, so don’t bring a bucket of it in your carry on bag.  UPDATE:  This is still true!  Never been stopped once. 

You will see me put many of these pointers to use in some upcoming posts.  Hope it helps you out!

Updated Hotel & Travel Tips-2017 edition

Updated Hotel & Travel Tips-2017 edition

Back in 2014, I posted about some tips I had about doing a scene in a hotel room. Thought I’d re-present it, along with a few new illustrative pics of mine, and a minor UPDATES.


So I imagine many of us had to use hotel rooms for bondage play.  And sometimes, nothing like a semi-seedy looking hotel can add to the hotness.

But often, the bondage opportunities can be lacking.  I think many of us have been disappointed by seeing this sight under a hotel bed, a rather common one in cheap rooms.

hoteltips (1)
A solid box frame, all the way to the floor. Creating absolutely no possible tie down points to the bed.

Now, it is possible to buy a full under the bed bondage frame.  Fort Troff also sells one with slightly higher quality restraints included–visit here and search for “under bed” and it will come up.  And if you have the budget (thought they’re not really that expensive, about $50-$60), and the space in your bag to pack it, that would be the most ideal solution.

But in the “why didn’t I think of this sooner” category, it dawned on me that by using a couple of 12 foot lengths of rope slid between the mattress and the box spring, you can create your own frame of sorts.  It’s not perfect, as it could possibly be moved around by an especially squirmy victim, but it will do in most situations, and I’ve never had too much of a problem with it.  The weight of the mattress and the person on it keeps it pretty well in place.  You would weave as many ropes as you’d like to create all the tie down points you need.  And then when finished, you can remove the ropes and put them to use in other positions.

hoteltips (2)
I try to have about equal amounts of rope showing on each side of the bed.

Another aspect of cheaper hotels I like is that they often have these “open closets” that invite some interesting overhead bondage opportunities.  And sometimes there will be space underneath a sink counter to “store” a slave, which could be quite humiliating.  Not to mention the bondage position possibilities in a bathroom and tub.

hoteltips (6)

FeatherTicklish, in a solo session

I always try to scout out pics of the rooms beforehand with a little bit of internet research.  I have occasionally booked a hotel specifically on the basis of their chairs and furniture.  Often, hotels have chairs with solid backs without any tie down points, so I try to avoid that whenever possible.

hoteltips (3)
Some hotel chairs have more tie down opportunities than others. Try to scout out pics of the room online to see what sort of chairs, tables, closets, etc. they have. Do keep in mind the pics may be outdated, or that furniture can vary depending on the sort of room you get (single, double, suite, etc.).

UPDATE:  Occasionally I get surprised with a closet wardrobe, but I can find ways to put them to good use.  As you can see.

In terms of packing gear, I’ve found those large ziploc “big bags” are pretty ideal.  (Note:  UPDATE below.)  They’re pretty durable, and you can keep your regular packing and your kink packing separate.  This one is their “Large” size, and it perfectly fits a Hitachi Magic Wand (which you can get here or here, and a cordless version at Stockroom–just note the cordless version must be fully charged before it will work)  and other gear.  They also sell XL and XXL and up, but the Large size fits well into most carry on luggage, so that’s my personal preference. That said, the Large size can be the trickiest one to find… I’ve found a lot of stores only carry the XL and up sizes, so you may have to scout around a bit or order them online, such as Amazon.  I ended up finding mine at Lowe’s, hardware chain in the USA, but even they didn’t have many, so your experience may vary.

asj-222_1z

hoteltips7
The marks on the right of the bag are centimeters. Not sure why they put that on there, but I’m sure it could come in handy for something. It goes up to 34 centimeters, in case you’re interested.

Keeping your equipment  in it’s own ziploc makes it very easy to grab your gear quickly, without having to dig through your bag (“Now, where did that muzzle go?”).  And once done, it has the added advantage of containing any drool, lube, or cum they may have acquired through usage away from your regular clothes. If you wanted you could have separate bags, one for restraints, one for gags, and one for toys.  For the sake of saving space, I try to cram it all into one, but one is certainly not limited to that.

Speaking of Hitachi Magic Wands (and I highly recommend them–did I mention there’s quite an array of attachments available for them?), if you decide to use the corded version, having at least a 3 foot extension cord comes in helpful way more than you’d think.  Often, the outlets are not conveniently located next to the bed.  Believe me, you don’t want to be all ready to go with your victim securely bound, only to realize the cord doesn’t reach them.  I speak from experience here.

UPDATE:  One problem I had with the ziploc bags was the unpacking for the scene.  It can get very messy.  I’ve since tried out these eBags Slim Packing Cubes (which can also be found on Amazon), and they’ve been amazing.  I got this assorted size pack, and it’s made the unpacking a breeze.  I just put the bags in a drawer, and unzip.  And they fit perfectly into my luggage.  The Hitachi Magic Wand fits inside the large bag without a problem.  Only small catch:  since the top is a mesh, items with prongs (like a wartenberg wheel) are best put in a small ziplock inside the bag so they don’t snag.  And when I do have a large item to carry, such as a leather sleepsack, I do put that in the large ziplock.

Some of you really may wonder if I put all this in my carry on bag when traveling via the airport.  The answer is yes.  Even in this day and age, in the USA, traveling with bondage restraints and gags in my carry on bag has never presented a problem for me with TSA security.  Ever.  I’ve even traveled to Europe with bondage gear in my carry on bag and had no problems.  I would hesitate to bring a gas mask in a carry on, as well as spreader bars, because they could be interpreted as weapons.   I did once forget I had some metal spreader bars in my bag, and while they let them through, in one airport, they did get questioned.  And other destinations may have other regulations.  But the USA, after maybe at least 10 different trips with bondage gear in my carry on bag, I’ve only been stopped that one time I had the spreader bars.

If you really want to be sure, here is the current page to the TSA Prohibited Items list.  As you can see, well over 95% of the list are items that could be direct weapons (knives, firearms, flammables, etc.).  There is even a search box where you can ask, “Can I bring my…?”  Although at last check, it didn’t recognize “bondage”, “gag”, “sex toy”, or “restraint”.  But it did recognize “rope”, as well as “handcuffs” (!), and it did say that it’s perfectly fine for checked or carry on luggage, as well as “Adult Toys”.  All that said, I should also add that I pretty much only bring restraints and gags, and some sensory play items, including Wartenberg Wheels.  I am not bringing whips, chains, and the like.  That could be a different story, and may be better suited to checked baggage.  And yes, lube still has to fulfill their 3-1-1 rule, so don’t bring a bucket of it in your carry on bag.  UPDATE:  This is still true!  Never been stopped once. 

You will see me put many of these pointers to use in some upcoming posts.  Hope it helps you out!

TFG Updates:  Meets, Cyber tagged posts

TFG Updates: Meets, Cyber tagged posts

So things have been very busy for me, kink-wise!  Had a lot of scenes recently, both as a sub and a Dom.  More as a Dom.  Which means there’s going to be a lot of original content coming!  And I certainly hope you all enjoyed the first set with 18 yo NaveKink that I posted yesterday.  He was a hottie, and I know you’re all going to like him as much as I did.  There’s more of him to cum, and a lot of other hot models as well.

What’s been keeping me so busy?  I will say one of my meets was with TheUAJock… need I say more?  But it wasn’t a mummification.  I had another experience in store for me that you’ll just have to wait and see about.  But this tweet I sent out last week gives a pretty big hint.

In terms of being a Dom, I had some great fun with a 23 yo guy who, it turns out, has been a big fan of my blog for years!  He really knew it and what I was all about.  He said it was a bit like meeting one of his heroes, and that I was handsome.  I like him already, lol.  His feet were very stinky the way I like it, and he himself was very into stinky, rancid socks all over his face and mouth.  Which I would only oblige.  In fact, he’s the one who sent this text to me as we were preparing to meet:

The other sub is someone thin and fit 30 yo that I’ve been chatting with for a while.  I knew he was into slave/pup play, but it turns out I underestimated how much he enjoyed feet, and being oral.  Which I don’t do oral sex, I do enjoy getting my feet and the rest of my body serviced, so it was quite a fun experience.  Trust me, you are going to enjoy his pics.  Some of the hottest I’ve taken, as you can see from the samples below.

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My final meet of recent was a semi-spontaneous one with a very young looking 30 yo Latino cutie (and I would have totally guessed he was in his early 20s, he looked super young and very hot!) who was quite submissive and very into being tickled.  Let’s put it this way:  we met in a public space first, so we could talk and make sure we were a good fit.  After doing so, I offered to give him a ride to my hotel a short distance away.  As we walked to my car, without being told to do so, he put his hands behind his back.  Now that was hot.  Let’s just say I teased him with some hand gagging on the car trip over, and he moaned appropriately.  That was another hot session that I’m still putting together the pics of, it only happened two days ago!


New “Cyber” tag for cyber Doming posts

In other news, I have really been enjoying all my cyber slaving.  If you are into verbal, I must say, I believe I’ve become quite good at it.  And these are real life, real time sessions, which makes them even hotter to read.  I’ve pretty much been updating my cyber slaving adventures each Wednesday, and they are quite numerous.  Lots of fun times abusing LL_slavej (Lowest of the Low), PAW_ss (Pathetic And Worthless straight slave), SockBitchSlave, Freezeman, newbie JamesT, and classics like S & M slave (a Straight & Married guy–he was fascinating to work with) and SBS_justin (Slave Bitch Slut), even though I’ve lost touch with them.

I realized it was hard to find older posts, so I’ve updated this blog with a tag for all my cyber posts, which you can click on or at the sidebar on the right.  Do keep in mind I have both Categories and Tags… so far, this is a Tag.  Though if this keeps up (and I do believe it will… there’s quite a pool of cyber slaves out there), I may eventually upgrade it.  But in the meantime, you can now find all the cyber posts in one click.

FAQ

I get many similar questions from time to time, so I thought I’d start a page where I can direct people to them.  To be honest, most of these were posts first, but it was getting tiring to repeatedly search for them to answer their questions… so I put them all in one place.  Hopefully, I’ll add to this as time goes on.  

Last updated:  6/20/17

 

What advice do you have for a beginner into bondage?

In terms of what equipment to buy, take a look at this great post that I borrowed from Dick Cash.  He really breaks down some basic gear and explains why it’s so versatile.

In terms of bondage techniques, there’s a great website called Twisted Monk that has an entire free section of video demonstrations of various bondage ties. It’s where I learned to make a body harness! You will have to put up with a few female (clothed) models, but sometimes we have to sacrifice in the name of education.  🙂  Below is their example of the very commonly used 2 column tie:

They have many more videos available, and it makes for some very fun browsing.  you can find other various ties on YouTube as well.  Just try your luck.  Lately, I’ve discovered a couple of cool technique videos from BoundJocks.  There’s another basic site called Lord Tierman that does not have videos, but pictorial guides to other various knots and ties.

In terms of gags, I found a great blog entry on Leather. Bondage. Love about how to make the ideal duct tape gag.  You won’t be disappointed.  It does appear to be time consuming, but also very effective.  Even I had no idea how detailed a good gag can be!  And the model is pretty hot too.  So it’s a win-win.

And one of the classics, which I bought way before the internet, is the book Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook.  A great read, and very educational.

If you’re meeting with a Dom for the first time, Fossil9 has some great pointers on his own blog posting.

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A word of caution about practicing self-bondage:  While most of us have started that way, it can be dangerous if you’re careless.  Have safety scissors nearby at all times, and always have a way to access and use them.  Don’t tie anything so tight that you begin to lose any circulation.  This goes for any bondage, really.  You should always be able to wriggle a finger or two into any tie.

In terms of what sort of stuff is out there, there’s a great BDSM checklist you can use here.

As far as places to get various bondage equipment and supplies, visit my Shopping page.

 

How do I become your online/cyber slave?

So perhaps you’re interested in being an cyber slave.  First off, I cannot guarantee full-time enslavement.  I have a full time job and husband, and those do have to come first.  I also do not do any C2C.

While I’ll play with nearly anyone a few times casually, there has to be some chemistry between the two of us for something longer term.  That chemistry has to be mutual, of course.  If things are looking serious, I’ll have an “equal” talk with you, and we’ll establish any limits, and then go from there.

I love working with new, beginner slaves.  It really turns me on to know I’m working with someone who’s eager to please, and is interested in getting their first experience with online slaving.  And online is a very safe way to go about it.  I respect the slave’s limits, and I never post pictures of any session unless I have the slave’s permission to do so.  You can look through this blog and see that any possible face pics I posted of slaves have been blurred, cropped, or not posted at all.

Still interested?  Then here’s my demands and rules summed up.  It looks like a lot, and may be overwhelming if you’re a novice.  But we can take things slow if you’re not certain, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. 

  • I generally like the slave to be younger than me (but over 18, the legal age here in the USA).  But I’m not against if you’re closer to my age, as long as you’re willing to submit.
  • Since I already have a full time job and relationship, don’t expect constant attention.  You’ll be doing my bidding frequently or infrequently, at my whim.  You’d just be a disposable toy to me.  That said, I do often assign my slaves tasks that may be daily.  However, I can work around the slave’s schedule if need be.
  • The ability to send pics and video of yourself.  Although I might not show mine.  I’m not here to please you.  You should be willing to show your face and body to me, at least over time.  NOTE:  Such pics would remain private, between us, unless you give me permission to post them.  I do respect your privacy.
  • You should also have similar interests as me:  feet, bondage, humiliation, abuse, and possibly gunge.
  • I like humiliating guys and forcing them to do demeaning things.
  • Also, if you really want to be a slave, then beg for it. Send me a short email pleading and begging to me why you should be my slave, and what you are willing to do for me. When you do, all references to yourself should be lower case (“i”, “me”, “slave”), and references to me are capitalized (“You”, “Sir”, “Master”).  A good slave has to follow my directions.  The more you plead, whimper, and properly obey, the more of my attention you’ll have.

 

If anyone is interested in infrequent or one time sessions, contact me, and we’ll see what I can arrange.  But I make no promises, and please don’t take it personally if it doesn’t work out, or I ignore you for long stretches.  Sometimes it’s more my schedule and availability than my actual interest.

 

How can I get tied up by you?

Generally it helps to be in the Los Angeles area, although I do often travel.  Check my Recon profile if I have any travel plans listed.  Keep in mind my schedule is often very limited–my work and husband keep me very busy, and they come first in my life.  So don’t take it personally if I can’t meet up with you.

I don’t care if you’re gay or straight.  Your own personal experience level doesn’t really matter much to me.  In fact, I particularly like working with newbies and those with very little experience to the scene.  It gives me a bit of a thrill to see someone tied up for their first time.  I can be gentle, demanding, or somewhere in-between, whatever is in your comfort zone.  I tend to be Dom when meeting others; I would only sub for guys I know very well over time.  I am still learning as a Dom, but am enjoying the journey, and I haven’t had many complaints from subs so far–and in fact, a few of them have come back for more.

A few rules I have about my meets:

  1. My husband and I have come to an agreement:  I can meet with people for bondage/foot/gunge/slave play only as long as I tell him about it.  Also, no oral or anal sex at all.  You will not see me naked.
  2. If we do meet, I will take pics of our session.  If you are concerned about identity, I can crop out your head, blur out features, or have you wear a hood or gag/mask combo.  You will get to preview all pics before I post, so that you can have final say regarding identity.  I won’t post any pic that makes you uncomfortable.
  3. Since I live with my husband, I can’t host, but I am willing to get a hotel if you can head my way.  If I’m available, I can try to go to you if you can host.

 

I am selective about who I play with, and will probably want to chat/email with you for a while before actually meeting.  I like twinks, feet, bondage, lycra, slaving, verbal, and/or humiliation are my favorites.  I also enjoy tweeking a subs nipples, and am getting into the idea of being a tickler.  But not a ticklee.


What are some of your favorite scenes you’ve done?  What would you do to me?

In terms of online slave play, Brett, SBS_justin, and Restwalker are great classics.  Not to mention the little “competition” I placed between the latter two.  Of recent, I’ve enjoyed “abusing” LL_slavej (Lowest of the Low), SockBitchSlave, PAW_ss (Pathetic And Worthless straight slave), and another straight slave heterobrieffag.

In terms of real life play, I’ve had a few memorable occasions.  Some personal highlights:

  • BoyTrigger has been great fun, one of my favorite subs I’ve played with so far.  Looking forward to much more with him.
  • NaveKink was another super hot twink sub.
  • Europup was super hot and submissive, just the way I like them, and also had quite a foot fetish himself.  Loved foot 69’ing him.
  • EstrellaBoyToy begged for me to abuse his feet.  How can I resist that?
  • Ticklishguys a couple of times, once with a friend (here, here, and here).
  • In the summer of 2013, I got to tie up Jordmac, as seen here, here, and here.
  • I did get to tie up one straight guy.
  • If you’re more into feet, I did have some fun feet play with a straight 20 year old with size 14 feet.  Thought you’d be interested.  😉

But to be brutally honest… I don’t think of myself as an expert roper.  Remember, pics you see of me bound here at my blog were done by my husband, who is more skilled at ropes than I.  Which is one of the main reasons I prefer to work with beginners.  That said, I do feel my work is improving.

If you want a small glimpse at my collection, I posted a set pics that comprise of my entire gag collection as of 2012.

 

Do you get permission from everyone when posting pics?

Only when posting a large set.  If it’s just a single pic, I really don’t have the time.  Not to mention the fact that it’s sometime difficult know where a pic originated from.  But if I am finding a lot of pics from a single person that I like, I nearly always try to get their permission before posting.  Sometimes accidents happen, but in all my years, I’ve only been asked to take down 2 pics since doing this blog.  At this point, most guys are flattered when they find themselves posted here.

I have a more detailed response about this topic here.


Where can I find Superhero costumes/Lycra?

I’m not going to lie, I typically order them on eBay or Milanoo from Chinese vendors.  The prices are good, as is the quality, and they are very good about customizing outfits–such as adding a crotch zipper, detachable hood, etc.  Just visit eBay and enter “lycra”, “zentai”, or “spandex” into their search engine, and the hero you’re looking for.  You’ll find a host of options.  While the prices are generally good, do be aware that the international shipping could be quite a bit extra… so don’t forgot to account for that when budgeting.  Some including the shipping in their price, and some don’t. Read carefully in that respect.

There was also a great article about this on Superhero DEFILERS.  Part 1 talks about various places to find costumes, and Part 2 discusses where to find accessories.

But if you want to buy American, try Spandexman.  Good selection, and while the prices look higher, shipping isn’t as bad either.



What’s up with the advertising?

Over the years, I’ve found I do buy many products from a few sites.  And I didn’t think it’d be a bad idea to support them.  Yes, I do get a small percentage of the sale.  But I try to only post infrequently, and only when I feel the sale is especially good, or for products I’m sincerely interested in, and therefore feel my blog readers would be in as well.  Believe me, I’ve gotten offers from a few various gay, porn, and kink websites asking if I’d like to be an affiliate, and in the past, I’ve turned down many because I’ve either never used them, or don’t feel they’re a good fit for my blog.  Now, though, they can find a home on my new Affiliates page.

But I, like most of you, don’t like to be hit in the head with advertising.  So I’ve found a bit of a compromise.  I will make sure they are never the top post of the day.  I will always put them below the most recent post. That way, if you’re a daily viewer, you’d never even run into it unless you scrolled down far enough.  Something as a little bonus to you daily viewers.

If, on the other hand, you enjoy seeing the sale or products that intrigue me, I have created a new label called shopping, so they can be grouped together separately.

All that said, if you do buy products from any of the sites I support, I would appreciate it if you got them through here.  I did notice there have been a few purchases lately from a few of you readers, and I thank you for that.  If you’d like to be one of them, visit my Shopping page. It’s a small, easy way to say thanks for all the work that I’ve put into the blog.

If you’d like to read my full, very detailed thoughts on this topic, go here.