Category: Bondage

Top Posts of 2017 #1: Updated Hotel & Travel Tips-2017 edition

Perhaps shockingly, the number one post of the year isn’t an explicitly kinky one, but a more practical one.  Back in 2014, I posted about some tips I had about doing a scene in a hotel room. Thought I’d re-present it, along with a few new illustrative pics of mine, and a minor UPDATES.  Seems it resonated pretty well!  But I do stand by these tips, and I’m guessing many of you do as well!


So I imagine many of us had to use hotel rooms for bondage play.  And sometimes, nothing like a semi-seedy looking hotel can add to the hotness.

But often, the bondage opportunities can be lacking.  I think many of us have been disappointed by seeing this sight under a hotel bed, a rather common one in cheap rooms.

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A solid box frame, all the way to the floor. Creating absolutely no possible tie down points to the bed.

Now, it is possible to buy a full under the bed bondage frame.  Fort Troff also sells one with slightly higher quality restraints included–visit here and search for “under bed” and it will come up.  And if you have the budget (thought they’re not really that expensive, about $50-$60), and the space in your bag to pack it, that would be the most ideal solution.

But in the “why didn’t I think of this sooner” category, it dawned on me that by using a couple of 12 foot lengths of rope slid between the mattress and the box spring, you can create your own frame of sorts.  It’s not perfect, as it could possibly be moved around by an especially squirmy victim, but it will do in most situations, and I’ve never had too much of a problem with it.  The weight of the mattress and the person on it keeps it pretty well in place.  You would weave as many ropes as you’d like to create all the tie down points you need.  And then when finished, you can remove the ropes and put them to use in other positions.

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I try to have about equal amounts of rope showing on each side of the bed.

Another aspect of cheaper hotels I like is that they often have these “open closets” that invite some interesting overhead bondage opportunities.  And sometimes there will be space underneath a sink counter to “store” a slave, which could be quite humiliating.  Not to mention the bondage position possibilities in a bathroom and tub.

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FeatherTicklish, in a solo session

I always try to scout out pics of the rooms beforehand with a little bit of internet research.  I have occasionally booked a hotel specifically on the basis of their chairs and furniture.  Often, hotels have chairs with solid backs without any tie down points, so I try to avoid that whenever possible.

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Some hotel chairs have more tie down opportunities than others. Try to scout out pics of the room online to see what sort of chairs, tables, closets, etc. they have. Do keep in mind the pics may be outdated, or that furniture can vary depending on the sort of room you get (single, double, suite, etc.).

UPDATE:  Occasionally I get surprised with a closet wardrobe, but I can find ways to put them to good use.  As you can see.

In terms of packing gear, I’ve found those large ziploc “big bags” are pretty ideal.  (Note:  UPDATE below.)  They’re pretty durable, and you can keep your regular packing and your kink packing separate.  This one is their “Large” size, and it perfectly fits a Hitachi Magic Wand (which you can get here or here, and a cordless version at Stockroom–just note the cordless version must be fully charged before it will work)  and other gear.  They also sell XL and XXL and up, but the Large size fits well into most carry on luggage, so that’s my personal preference. That said, the Large size can be the trickiest one to find… I’ve found a lot of stores only carry the XL and up sizes, so you may have to scout around a bit or order them online, such as Amazon.  I ended up finding mine at Lowe’s, hardware chain in the USA, but even they didn’t have many, so your experience may vary.

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The marks on the right of the bag are centimeters. Not sure why they put that on there, but I’m sure it could come in handy for something. It goes up to 34 centimeters, in case you’re interested.

Keeping your equipment  in it’s own ziploc makes it very easy to grab your gear quickly, without having to dig through your bag (“Now, where did that muzzle go?”).  And once done, it has the added advantage of containing any drool, lube, or cum they may have acquired through usage away from your regular clothes. If you wanted you could have separate bags, one for restraints, one for gags, and one for toys.  For the sake of saving space, I try to cram it all into one, but one is certainly not limited to that.

Speaking of Hitachi Magic Wands (and I highly recommend them–did I mention there’s quite an array of attachments available for them?), if you decide to use the corded version, having at least a 3 foot extension cord comes in helpful way more than you’d think.  Often, the outlets are not conveniently located next to the bed.  Believe me, you don’t want to be all ready to go with your victim securely bound, only to realize the cord doesn’t reach them.  I speak from experience here.

UPDATE:  One problem I had with the ziploc bags was the unpacking for the scene.  It can get very messy.  I’ve since tried out these eBags Slim Packing Cubes (which can also be found on Amazon), and they’ve been amazing.  I got this assorted size pack, and it’s made the unpacking a breeze.  I just put the bags in a drawer, and unzip.  And they fit perfectly into my luggage.  The Hitachi Magic Wand fits inside the large bag without a problem.  Only small catch:  since the top is a mesh, items with prongs (like a wartenberg wheel) are best put in a small ziplock inside the bag so they don’t snag.  And when I do have a large item to carry, such as a leather sleepsack, I do put that in the large ziplock.

Some of you really may wonder if I put all this in my carry on bag when traveling via the airport.  The answer is yes.  Even in this day and age, in the USA, traveling with bondage restraints and gags in my carry on bag has never presented a problem for me with TSA security.  Ever.  I’ve even traveled to Europe with bondage gear in my carry on bag and had no problems.  I would hesitate to bring a gas mask in a carry on, as well as spreader bars, because they could be interpreted as weapons.   I did once forget I had some metal spreader bars in my bag, and while they let them through, in one airport, they did get questioned.  And other destinations may have other regulations.  But the USA, after maybe at least 10 different trips with bondage gear in my carry on bag, I’ve only been stopped that one time I had the spreader bars.

If you really want to be sure, here is the current page to the TSA Prohibited Items list.  As you can see, well over 95% of the list are items that could be direct weapons (knives, firearms, flammables, etc.).  There is even a search box where you can ask, “Can I bring my…?”  Although at last check, it didn’t recognize “bondage”, “gag”, “sex toy”, or “restraint”.  But it did recognize “rope”, as well as “handcuffs” (!), and it did say that it’s perfectly fine for checked or carry on luggage, as well as “Adult Toys”.  All that said, I should also add that I pretty much only bring restraints and gags, and some sensory play items, including Wartenberg Wheels.  I am not bringing whips, chains, and the like.  That could be a different story, and may be better suited to checked baggage.  And yes, lube still has to fulfill their 3-1-1 rule, so don’t bring a bucket of it in your carry on bag.  UPDATE:  This is still true!  Never been stopped once. 

You will see me put many of these pointers to use in some upcoming posts.  Hope it helps you out!

Top Posts of 2017 #3: Current crush, Kidlevi

I see I’m not the only one who likes him!  I’d love to meet him one day… even Castro told me he thought we’d be a good match.  I’m all for it!


 So this sub of Castro’s is one of my new faves.  Super hot 19 yo twink with incredible size 10.5 feet, cock, seems to enjoy smelling feet/shoes/socks, and oral service.  Oh, and a British accent.  Uh, what’s not to like?

He also has a twitter here, although he doesn’t really tweet all that often.

If you like these pics, then please consider supporting Castro and Pup Whisper continue with their work and mounting medical bills (and unfortunately, without insurance).  I gave!

Ugh, those feet of his.  I would do terrible things to them.  And have him worship my stinky soles/shoes/socks, that’s for sure.  I have a feeling he’d enjoy it.

Top Posts of 2017 #4: BoyTrigger Overnight, Part 2

One of the sweetest guys, and most eager slave I’ve worked with.  I’ve had a total blast, and he is easily one of my favorite slaves of all time.  Pity he’s tough to schedule, and is a bit far away from me.  We did actually have one other overnighter after this… just waiting for him to approve some of the pics, and we can see more of this hottie…


 

His time in the stocks was far from over.  Had to reveal his soft boyfeet, you know.  And to continue to use his face and body for my personal foot rest and sock wash.  Stuffed them in his mouth and made sure he chewed until they were clean…

As you can see, he wanted my feet real bad, but they’re just out of his reach… making him beg and plead for them…

And the fun part is that he really doesn’t have that much of a foot fetish.  But he does have a fetish for doing whatever it takes to please his Master.  So he ends up getting quite into it.  Plus, you should recognize one of these pics in my new slideshow at the top of the blog.

Next week… out of the stocks, and into the sleepsack…

Top Posts of 2017–Honorable Mention: ThreeStripes, Part 1

I’ve decided to repost the most viewed posts of this past year.  To qualify, they had to be posted this year.  And I didn’t count other pages within this blog, just individual posts.

To be honest, this is more of an honorable mention.  There were a few posts above him.  However, at the same time, his posts didn’t even go up until later in the year, and in a short amount of time, they racked up a large number of views.  So I included it.  There’s more to this set, just search the name ThreeStripes in the search box!  He was a blast to work with.  There’s actually a second set of him coming later…


 

So this 33 blonde jock was anxious to get tied up in some spandex.  While he didn’t have a foot fetish himself, he totally accommodated mine, and got his feet as stinky as he could.  He first sent me these pics of his size 10 feet:

Hard to resist that, isn’t it?  We met at his place, and after showing me all his gear, I chose an outfit for him and got him quckly tied and gagged.  As you can see, the bondage got more restrictive as it went along…

The chest harness was his own, but the rest of the gear was mine:  ultra blindfold, restraints, collar, bondage belts, and plug gag.

Top Posts of 2017–Honorable Mention: JJEA, Part 3

Happy Holidays to all!  So to end 2017, I’ve decided to repost the most viewed posts of this year.  To qualify, they had to be posted this year.  And I didn’t count other pages within this blog, just individual posts.

To be honest, this is more of an honorable mention.  There were a quite few posts above him.  However, at the same time, his posts didn’t even go up until just a few weeks ago, and in a short amount of time, they racked up a large number of views.  Pretty impressive for such a late entry!  So I included it. 

I had a blast with this guy, and we both definitely want to meet again.  Sadly, our schedules have been difficult, but we’ll keep trying.


 Time for this 19 yo to get tied up again, don’t you agree?  Plus, a bit of forced shoe and sock sniffing.  The face of a tied up hot guy makes a great footrest.

Gear used:  Collar, Ballgag

Please help CastroKinky & Pup Whisper!

Please help CastroKinky & Pup Whisper!

Over the last few months, I’ve had the privilege of slowing getting to know CastroKinky, who I’ve featured him and his slaves on this blog before (many times, but prominently featured here).  Not only from his amazing twitter account, where he posts pics and vids of his times with super hot twinks servicing him, but also as a person behind the scenes.  He really seems to put a lot of care and thought into his relationship with his slaves, and does a great deal of community service for the BDSM community in the San Fransisco area.  I have great respect for him.

However, if you weren’t aware, both he and Pup Whisper have recently encountered some major medical issues–Castro with a shattered femur from a fall at IML, and Pup Whisper with a cyst in his brain that is yet to be fully diagnosed–a lot to handle for anyone, even more so as a 19 yo setting out in a new life away from his family.  Even more unfortunate, due to their community work, they are uninsured, and are now facing incredibly large medical bills.

If each of his twitter followers gave just $10, his bills would be covered.  And for all the content he’s given, I feel that’s more than a fair amount.  He’s given so much… do the right thing and give back.  I put my money where my mouth is, and gave $50.

Read more about their situation in Pup Whisper’s own words and then donate here.

Originally posted 2017-08-20 05:00:40. Republished by Blog Post Promoter