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Graham H is back!

Graham H is back!

I’ve never mentioned on here before, but if you like to check out male feet on YouTube, he was your guy. 

In case you weren’t aware of his work, he would approach hot guys just out and about, and get them to show their feet.  No nudity at all, just real guys showing their feet.  I still don’t know exactly how he does it (my suspicion is he tells guys he works for a shoe company, and needs to see the shape of men’s feet to see how the shoes would fit), but it’s a pretty great service. And whatever technique he’s using, he’s got it mastered.

Despite there being no nudity or sexual content at all (other than seeing men’s socks and bare feet), his channel has been flagged a lot.  But at last, he’s decided to create his own webpage.  So give it a visit!

Below are just a few screen caps I took of his vids, so you get an idea of what you’ll see.  Soles are my favorite, so I focused on those, but it should be noted he gets feet from every angle:  feet straight out, ankles crossed, tops, heels, and sitting and standing.  He also spends a good time on the guys in socks, so you sock lovers aren’t left out.

Breaking News:  No Safe Word does Foot Fetish, finally!

Breaking News: No Safe Word does Foot Fetish, finally!

With a gentle nudge from yours truly, the NoSafeWord has finally done an episode on foot fetishism!  It’s been long overdue.  And with fabulous representation from the incredible James T Medak, nonetheless.  Seek out episode number 215 “Foot in Mouth, Please.”  I’ve already given it a listen, and it’s a great episode! 

For those of you who don’t know (and if you follow this blog, you should), James T Medak is a major foot pig.  I’ve interviewed him here at my blog, and been fortunate enough to meet him in person (along with one of his friends, SaltLakeFootman).  He’s also the author of numerous foot, bondage, and tickling books which are for sale on Amazon.  Congrats to his great work on the show.

I will confess this was done a bit at my nudging.  I did write the show requesting them to hit this topic, and I very much appreciate seeing my name credited, and to the show for indulging me and all us foot fetishists.  It’s a bit surreal to see my name on iTunes, but it’s also pretty freakin’ damn cool.  🙂  Go support!

Dore Alley Dungeon Bed for sale… last call!

Dore Alley Dungeon Bed for sale… last call!

Updated with new pics.  We are getting rid of this.  If interested, and would be available to pick it up, let me know.

So my husband and I got ourselves the Dore Alley Dungeon Bed for rather obvious reasons. We totally love it, but he’s starting to think he wants a King bed, and right now we have a Queen. This would mean not only would we have to get an entire new bed and mattress (and to be honest, we’d probably get another Dore Alley Bed… we really do like it), but we’d also have to figure out what to do with the old one.

Since it’s a bed with very distinctive bondage uses, it seems only fair it should go to someone in the kink community. But it’s very expensive, and not easy to mail. So you’d have to be in the Los Angeles area, and be willing to pick it up and transport (it does come apart)–unless you are willing to pay shipping, but that would be at least a couple hundred dollars.

Note our bed already comes with: top rail restraints (the bars across the top), and votive candle holders. This make the current retail total value of the bed well over $4000 according to, and that is not including tax or shipping costs. We do not have a sling extender, which we understand to be a very common purchase with this bed, but I’m quite certain you can still get one and attach it if desired.

Obviously it’s used, and the transportation factors in. That said, it’s in excellent shape–we take care of our stuff. We’d like to ask $3000 for it, but are open to other offers. Here’s some pics so you can see it (sheet not included, but that could possibly be negotiated as well).

TFG vs GayComicGeek!  The trailer

TFG vs GayComicGeek! The trailer

So I posted a few tweets about a fairly well-known internet celebrity that I got to meet.

A few of your figured it out.  And yes, I got to meet, tie up, and see the feet of the GayComicGeek!


If you don’t know him, I’ve included some pics below (not mine, just from his site) so you can see what you’ve been missing out on.  A true comic geek based in Miami, he’s been looking to experience a bit more bondage.  And while he doesn’t have a foot fetish of his own, he’s acknowledged that many of his fans (like me!) have been wanting to see his 10.5 sized feet.  I did, and it was awesome.

And for those of you who may have forgotten, but I do have a thing for superhero bondage.  So much so, I began a second blog called  So this was quite a thrill for me.

He was in San Diego for this small event called Comic Con.  Obviously if you’re a geek, that’s going to keep you pretty damn busy.  So I was amazed he was able to fit a meet into his schedule at all.  Our time was short, but we made the most of it with pics of him in:

  • Spiderman caught and tied in a web
  • Battled scarred Spiderman (torn up costume) standing up spread-eagled
  • Nightwing in both a rope body harness and yoke
  • And… well… *ahem* just underwear.  Spiderman boxer briefs.  He may have been hogtied, ballgagged, and barefoot as well.


So now I know you’re dying to see the pics.  They are being worked on by a friend of his to include some graphic, comic details.  This was a different sort of shoot.  I will have to confess these pics were done with an intentional bit of tongue-in-cheek feel.  It was not an intense, serious, slave style bondage scene.  Since his passion is comics, not to mention our time constraints (we only had 2 hours) we kept it very light, and did our best to honor the comic feel.  I we attempted to recreate the look of this famous Spiderman pic.


Once the pics are ready–and keep in mind, it may be a while, there were a lot to go through–I will be posting highlights both here and at CapturedHeroesBlog.  But I will say that I have donated the bulk of these pics to his Patreon site, which he created to help support himself.  If you weren’t aware, some time ago, he actually lost his job as a direct result of his blog (he openly reviews porn, and they didn’t like that), and he’s primary using the site to support himself.  I felt it was important to help him do so.

Hope you’ll visit his site once they’re up!  I will say that I did not let the foot guys down… I made certain his bare feet showed in a good number of pics.  So you’d definitely get your monies worth.  Remember, none of pics below are mine, but it will give you an idea of what I had in mind as we worked.

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His tops. This was taken from his profile. I got to see his soles.

And yes, he is just as hot and nice as you’d expect him to be in person.  😀

We’ll keep you posted as to when the pics will be ready!  I may be posting teasers to my twitter, so keep an eye on that just in case.

Did you write and never get a reply from me?

Did you write and never get a reply from me?

I only recently found out that many of my emails from my other blog were going to my spam folder.  For all I know, it may have been happening here, too.

I’ve since fixed it, but I actually have no idea how long this was happening for–it may have been a while.  So if you wrote me and never heard a reply, that may have been the case, and I apologize.  Feel free to write again, I do love hearing from fans!


Reorganizing the posts, updated Galleries

Reorganizing the posts, updated Galleries

NOTE:  New posts below, just scroll down!

As my content around here is increasing, I thought I’d make it easier to find what you may be looking for.  All categories are listed in a sidebar at the right, making it easy to find what interests you.  I imagine most of you want to see my bondage/feet work of the hot guys I’ve had a chance to tie up.  Some of you may want to see the sexy ropework my husband does on me.  Others greatly enjoy my cyber work.  So I’ve separated it all out.

If you want to see:

  • All the pics/posts where I’ve worked with and tied up different guys, use the new TFG’s subs category.  If you just want to see the “best of” of my sub work, visit my TFG’s subs page and gallery.
  • All the posts where I’m the one tied up (usually by my husband, but occasionally others), use the TFG category.  Again, a “best of” is on my TFG Pics page.
  • If you want to see all my cyber slave work, use the cyber category.
  • I occasionally get submissions from readers, which goes under the reader submission category.
  • Want to see it all?  Collectively, all of the above is under the Exclusive category, as all of it is original content that isn’t found anywhere else (until it gets reposted to tumblr, lol).

Taken as a whole, there are over  280 exclusive posts, 52 of which are just my work with subs!  I’ve noticed that I’ve been working with a lot more people in recent years.  Even I was surprised!  It’s been a huge thrill to work with so many hot guys.

Speaking of my Gallery pages, in other news, I’ve recently updated both my TFG Pic Gallery and TFG’s subs Gallery.  I had quite a few pics to catch up with in the latter, and there are a few pics in there that I’ve yet to post–consider it a preview!  I’ve been meeting quite a few hot guys.  Go see and enjoy.

Blog Birthday/Tickled Movie/New “Cyber” tag for cyber Doming post

Blog Birthday/Tickled Movie/New “Cyber” tag for cyber Doming post

So incredibly enough, as of this week, I have been blogging for 11 years.  Let’s say that again.

Eleven years.

Admittedly, the first few were pretty dry.  At the time, I had a fledgling website, and because my programming skills were pretty week, it was easier to blog about updates I did to the site than to actually add them to the site itself.  I’d occasionally talk about my life and guys I was dating, but that was about it.  As times and formats changed, I realized it’d be easier to just put all my content into a blog format.  This allowed me to post daily (despite a few breaks) since about 2009/2010.

Like many great things, this wasn’t planned from the beginning.  It just sort of organically happened.  And because of it, I’ve had a great time talking with like minded kinky people from all over the world.  It’s been pretty incredible.

How many kinky blogs do you know that have been around this long?  Thanks to all of you for your support!

And if you want to read even more about the history of this blog, click here and scroll down.

Tickled Movie

Admittedly I’m a bit late to the party, but I finally got to see the Tickled movie.  Since this is primarily a kinky foot/bondage blog, I’ll get this out of the way right off the top:  there are a few scenes of tickling play where you get to see feet.  But it is not the focus of the movie, so you shouldn’t go in expecting that.  In fact, as the movie progresses, I actually began to feel sorry for the models, because much of what was posted was without their consent, which is a very different matter.  People who do this sort of this should be doing so willingly, and not blackmailed into it.  Which is the theme the movie explores, and it gets very strange and dark for most of the film.  I don’t have a lot more to say about the movie that hasn’t already been said, but I do very much appreciate that Rich from My Friend’s Feet is portrayed is a well deserved light.  And I say that having hardly talked with him much, but having much respect for his work.

I think the interesting part is that during the premier in Los Angeles, the two main subjects of the film were there at the Q & A that followed, and there was a rather heated confrontation.  They’ve also began their own site to try to discredit the film.  I haven’t delved into every aspect of it, but it seems to me like they can’t see the forest for the trees.  I almost felt sorry for them until they stated that what Rich does is pornography, and theirs isn’t.  And not gay.

As many of us know, Rich’s site is not pornography.  Erotic and fetish positive, yes.  But not explicit pornography.  No one gets naked, nor is there any sort of sex whatsoever.  Yes, they do take their shirts off.  But so do guys at the beach, and I wouldn’t call that pornography.  The fact they seem to so adamantly deny it’s gay or homoerotic at all is what’s so absolutely strange to me.  There seems to be some deeply seated self-loathing here, and in a way, it’s rather sad.

“Cyber” tag

I actually already reported this, but it was at the very bottom of a very large post, so I’m stating it again.

I have really been enjoying all my cyber slaving. If you are into verbal, I must say, I believe I’ve become quite good at it. And these are real life, real time sessions, which makes them even hotter to read. I’ve pretty much been updating my cyber slaving adventures each Wednesday, and they are quite numerous. Lots of fun times abusing LL_slavej (Lowest of the Low), PAW_ss (Pathetic And Worthless straight slave), SockBitchSlave, Freezeman, newbie JamesT, and classics like S & M slave (a Straight & Married guy–he was fascinating to work with) and SBS_justin (Slave Bitch Slut), even though I’ve lost touch with them.

I realized it was hard to find older posts, so I’ve updated this blog with a tag for all my cyber posts, which you can click on or at the sidebar on the right. Do keep in mind I have both Categories and Tags… so far, this is a Tag. Though if this keeps up (and I do believe it will… there’s quite a pool of cyber slaves out there), I may eventually upgrade it. But in the meantime, you can now find all the cyber posts in one click.

Stockroom Rummage Sale!

Stockroom Rummage Sale!

If you are in Los Angeles the weekend of April 23-24, be sure to stop by The Stockroom and their famous rummage sale (now called their Spring Cleaning Clearance Sale).  You can honestly get some amazing deals there!  My husband and I got their high quality spreader bars for $5 each… and they normally sell for about $60!  And no, nothing was wrong with them.  I also got an amazing chastity belt for $25, that also normally retails for about $125!

The deals can be incredible.  You can visit their site for more info, but it should be open from 11am-7pm both days.  A word of warning–if you wait towards the end of the day Sunday, you’ll likely find most of the good stuff has been picked through.  So the sooner you can get there, the better.

The event is held in an adjacent space literally next door to their retail location:  The Stockroom Hall, 2811 W. Sunset Blvd, LA, CA, 90026.  I’m not sure I can personally make it this year, but I have definitely attended in years past, and I highly recommend it!

More possible delays

More possible delays

So I have much of this week off, and I hope to be getting a new computer.  My current one is getting very, very slow, and it’s to a point where even just opening a webpage or a folder can take minutes on a bad day.  (It’s even taken up to 10 to 15 minutes just to open up a folder.)

But with this update may come some downtime.  I will try to keep up posts, but if the site does go quiet, please be patient. I will return.  Keep checking my twitter, which I can update by phone or iPad, for my current status.  Plus, I sometimes post hot pics, too.  🙂