I already answered questions #1-14 here, now for the rest of the list.
Where it applies, and avoiding repeating yourself, describe a memorable session where…
15. …you felt particularly submissive/controlled
As I mentioned #1 (from last week), I’m not submissive too often. Even with my husband, the submissiveness is mostly just bondage–he doesn’t really care for verbal or humiliation. But many years ago, I did get to meet SaltLakeFootman and James T. Medak, and it did end with me worshipping their feet, and I felt pretty submissive then
16. ….you felt particularly dominant/in control
Since I Dom a lot, this is pretty tough to narrow down. But I think I feel the most Dom anytime I work with either BoyTrigger or Freezeman. I just click with them really well, and they’re open to a lot of various humiliations and “abusive” uses.
17. …there was an element of public risk/threat of discovery involved
I don’t really do public stuff much. But there was one time many, many years ago where I did jerk off in a park (outside!), and a few occasions where I’ve made subs do things on the sly in public… like go to a bathroom stall and have them write “slave” on their chest in a stall and send me a pic, or casually spit into their drink and food, or text them to put their hands behind their back while walking outside… stuff that outsiders may not notice, but is part of the scene and control.
18. …there were more than two participants
I’ve never had more than a threesome, and even those have been pretty rare. But I have enjoyed them when they have happened!
19. …there was an element of anonymity involved
If we mean that as, “I didn’t know anything about the person I was playing with beforehand”, that’s never happened for me. I like to know people first.
20. …you felt like you were taken well out of your control zone
Since I don’t sub that often, and trust the people I do sub for, it’s never really happened for me. Hasn’t really happened for me as a Dom either, as far as I can recall
21. …there was an element of endurance or extended restraint
Generally, I’m not into long term bondage. Closest for me was probably the time many, many years ago I was mummified by TheUAJock, which was about an hour.
22. …pain was a major element
Generally not into intense pain. I do like ball crushing, that’s about as intense I get in terms of pain for myself. Even as a Dom, I generally don’t do a lot of pain unless the sub requests it, and when they do, it’s usually very intense tit play. I can really get into giving tit play, especially when the sub moans a lot. That’s a big turn on for me.
23. …anal was a major element
Generally not something I do, but I have had subs use some dildos/butt plus on themselves, if they want some anal play. Though I am looking for someone to use my boiseat on
24. …watersports/filth/rauch was a major element
Well, I love smelly/raunchy feet, so that’s as often as possible. I don’t do watersports too much, but I don’t mind doing it as a Dom if the sub is into it. I view it as a part of a humiliation scene.
25. ….something unusual was a turn on for you/your partner
I wouldn’t really say it was unusual, but I was surprised by how much I was turned on by hero lycra play. And I do find the idea of gunge very hot, but I haven’t really experimented with it all that much. I don’t want to have to deal with cleaning it up after, haha
26. …the set up was particularly creative
I find small ways to get creative into most of my scenes, haha
Yes/No only!
27. Have you got any major fetishes you don’t talk about on this account?
Not really, I’m a pretty open book in that regard
28. Have you ever fantasized about a close relative?
No… there’s one cousin I thought was pretty hot when I was younger, but even then, I wouldn’t say I fantasized about him
29. Do you feel you have ever “really crossed the line” in a session?
Not that I can think of
30. Do you have any sexual fantasies that would be legally risky to attempt?
No, pretty safe in this regard.
