Category: life

So a few months ago, I posted how I was having some health issues (non-life threatening), and they were likely related to sniffing my rancid socks so frequently. I’ve been treated for a number of months, and while my health and condition have dramatically improved, … Continue readingHealth update: better, but not 100%

I’m not sure what’s in the air, but for some reason, I have recently been contacted by a lot of people for either cyber or real life play. I’ve also been getting cruised on Recon quite often (for me anyway), by a lot of new … Continue readingSo many messages!

So a number of weeks ago, I posted a “kink wish list” of experiences I have yet to try, but I really wanted to. I can now take off two items! It’s a funny story… So I was about to meet a new 23 yo … Continue readingWell, I can take THAT off my list

Been an odd time in my life. Personally, work, and marriage-wise, things are pretty great. Can’t really complain. But in terms of extended friends & family, it’s been quite a whirlwind. As I posted a few months ago, a good friend of mine recently passed … Continue readingFriends & Family

So I have a vacation right now, and I should be up in the San Francisco area in a few days. I do love visiting SF, it’s a great city to visit. So much to do, and very gay and kink friendly. You’d think I’d … Continue readingMaybe get to meet some people–socially, anyway

Some time ago, a kinky friend sent me a link to this article: Did a Guy in China Really Get a Lung Infection from Huffing Sweaty Socks? It was more as a joke, but little did he know, I actually am experiencing a minor medical … Continue readingMedical Issues Due to Sock Sniffing?

So I’ve been pretty quiet on twitter lately, because I’ve had a lot happening in my life lately that isn’t kink related. In fact, kink has been pretty far from my mind lately. About a week ago, I posted how stressful things were for me … Continue readingNot the greatest time for me

So I recently heard from an old friend from my college days, and it made me reminisce that it was one of the first times I had to do aftercare for a scene… before I even knew that was the word for it. Short backstory… … Continue readingTFG Early Influences: Learning about aftercare from experience