Category: thoughts

I’ve had many subs flake out on me for meets.  I do understand some people can decide that a connection between two people for a kink meet isn’t there; there are many factors that determine that sort of chemistry.  There has to be some physical … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Ghosted

So in my messages on Recon and real life meets, I only recently noticed that a large majority of them are young Latino guys.  I do think Latino guys are pretty damn hot, and even more fortunately for me, often have pretty hot feet.  But … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Young, kinky submissive Latinos?

So recently I took a trip to San Francisco.  I did have some kinky meets planned, but I’ve been around to enough to know how it goes, and to never rely on them. Well, good thing.  They all ended up flaking.  Including one that I … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Meet frustrations

So I have to be up front and say I have never attended any sort of leather event (IML, MAL, Dore Alley, Fetish Week, etc.).  To be perfectly honest, the main reason is at the instance of my husband (although I also agree) that there … Continue readingAnxiety at leather events

I feel I should say something deep to end the year with, but all I can say is what’s on my mind. Kink-wise, I’ve had some great times.  I’ve meet with some amazing subs, but I also am fortunate enough to have a fantastic husband … Continue readingThoughts for the new year, and past

I think one thing that sets me a bit apart from the larger kink community is the fact I choose to remain sober.  Both during a play scene and outside of a scene.  I’m sure there are a number of other guys that must stay … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Sober play only

So I haven’t said much about the recent US election, but in a way, I feel there isn’t much more to add that hasn’t already been said.  I, personally, am devastated, as is my husband (perhaps he more so).  I am fearful for the future, … Continue readingElection blues

I’ve actually written about this before, but I still have to say… I would love to meet up with a young, kinky blonde twink.  I’ve always thought blondes were super sexy, and I have been fascinated by them my entire life.  Even when I was … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Where are the blonde twinks?