Quite a while ago, I posted that my husband and I typically have sex in silence–meaning, we’ve never put on any music. My husband does have a thing for silence in that respect, so I didn’t think it too unusual. But recently, before we were … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: New music discovery!
If you follow my twitter, you may notice I love taking candid pics of guy’s feet. How do I do this? With an app on my iPhone. There are many to choose from (just search for “hidden camera” apps), but the one I prefer so … Continue readingTFG Tips: Hidden Camera for iPhone
It never hurts to be safe. If you want some tips on how to meet people, both online and in person, this site (recommended by Metalbond) has some good advice. http://www.avp.org/resources/avp-resources/96 Also, don’t forget the resource Kitestring could be a good option as well. I … Continue readingOnline Dating and Hook-Up Safety Tips
NOTE: I reposted and updated this article in April 2017. Click here to see the new and updated post (with more, sexy pics!) So I imagine many of us had to use hotel rooms for bondage play. And sometimes, nothing like a semi-seedy looking hotel … Continue readingHotel & Travel Bondage Tips
We in the kink community like to “play”. Via Recon, GearFetish, or other sites, we’ll chat with other like minded people, and there’s a connection, the next step is meeting up, generally with some fun times ahead. If it is someone you don’t know well, … Continue readingTFG: Safety measures for first meets
I recently got this question recently in an email (quoted with permission from the author): I have a bit of a personal question if you don’t mine me asking. I’m 25 and very tired of dating vanilla guys and I’d like to get in touch … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Meeting other kinksters
So I’ve had a reader tell me that he’s customized his sofa by adding some padeye locks underneath, so that he can tie people to his sofa and immobilize them. This is a picture of the underside. You can see the hook peeking through. Many … Continue readingTFG: Home improvments
I’ve seen this around before. I have to admit, I’m not sure of it’s origins. If anyone can enlighten me, please do! But I think it’s a good way to remind ourselves to play safe. The boys’ Bill of Rights: 1. Every boy has the … Continue readingThe boy’s Bill of Rights, & FAGGOT follow up
I saw this post on his blog, and thought it was very informative. I especially have a weak spot for helping beginners. It turns me on to know when I’m breaking someone in for their first time. 😉 And even more advanced players will get … Continue readingGuest Post: Dick Cash, Beginner’s Bondage Kit
So after one of my latest posting about chastity, generous reader ccontrol was kind enough to send me his thoughts and advice. The downside of all “trapped ball” chastity devices (ones that use a ring to hang on instead of a belt) is that they … Continue readingReader Contribution: Chastity Advice
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