So as I mentioned before… being put in chastity is kinda addicting (which I’m sure is no surprise to all of you currently in it). So I’ve gone for a third round.
I immediately replaced it with one more ring size down, and went about my day. Problem is, this ring size is a bit of a tight fit for me, and my balls did experience soreness after wearing them for 12 more hours the next day. But aside from the accident in the morning (which was quickly remedied), it did make for a 24 hour wear, which was pretty hot. Sadly, I had to remove for the next night, as I had a big day at work the next day, and wanted to make sure I wasn’t distracted in any way.
Perhaps others with more experience can help me here. Like I said, when I did slip out, there was lube everywhere, including the ring. I kinda get the feeling if the ring hadn’t been so lubed, I wouldn’t have been able to slip out of it–and it would increase my comfort level. It’s been a difficult battle to find a combination of ring and pin sizes where 1) it was large enough so that I would be comfortable for longer term wear, and 2) small enough so that I don’t slip out.
Now, this last go round was just before I left for my trip. Since then, I did another 12 hour wear (not overnight, sadly), and I had the exact same problem. If I number the rings in size from 1 being smallest to 5 being the largest, I have found that the size 2 ring is just too uncomfortable to wear for more than a few hours. But the size 3 ring I can slip out of, although generally not easily. So I guess it now comes to gauging the correct pin size, right? I was originally using the largest one. (My very first time, I used the shortest one, and that was way too painful.) I went one down, avoided lube on the ring, and still slipped out. Now I’m two sizes down on the pin. I seem okay so far in terms of slipping out, and it’s comfortable enough I suppose… but I think I’d only last a couple of days, max, before I’d become too uncomfortable and sore around my balls. I’d feel I’d have to go one more pin size up to be comfortable. So it’s been a bit of a dilemma.
As I’ve mentioned before, my balls are rather small, and can be difficult to work with. Maybe I should try another device, such as a Birdlocked or Bon4? But part of me says they won’t be much better in terms of my particular situation. So do any of you more experienced guys have any other solutions, ideas, or combinations of ring size vs. pin size?