I can’t take credit for this article, but I think it’s a good one. I also really like the tips they make about when you’re meeting a person for a kinky meet for the first time… very sound advice that all beginners should read. This is the intro:
Are you going to die kinky and lonely?
Finding a partner is hard enough in the vanilla world. But it can seem impossible in the kink world. You want to find a quality partner, but you want to find someone who meets your unique needs. It can be hard to know the best path because most of the information out there targets vanilla relationships.
If you find yourself asking any of the following questions, this article is for you!
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What do I need to know before getting started?
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Do I have a better chance of meeting someone online or offline?
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Where do the kinky people hang out?
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How should I approach a potential partner?
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What steps can I take to stay safe?
It’s long, but split into sections, so you can easily scroll and find what interests you. Topics include:
- Kinky online dating
- Finding kinksters in real life
- Making a good impression on a first kinky date
- Negotiating sex play (which includes the fantastic advice of just because someone identifies as a sub, doesn’t mean they are your sub… treat them with respect until they have given consent otherwise)
- Introducing kinky into an existing vanilla relationship
http://atouchofflavor.com/dating/youre-not-alone-finding-a-kinky-partner
