Saw this post on Bluesky, and liked it a lot. After getting permission from the author, Just The Ropes (must be logged into Bluesky to view), I’m posting it here. The original post is linked below, but you’ll only be able to view it if … Continue readingRules for subs (Just the Ropes)
Last week I talked about the Hobble Belt, and now I will give an illustrated “how to” guide to achieve ties. First off, we’ll talk briefly about the design of these belts, which will come in handy for following the actual ties. I have two … Continue readingMr. S Hobble Belt uses, Part 2: Step by step how to
While mine are older, Mr. S and The Stockroom (it’s actually cheaper there! ) still sells the Hobble Belt. For the record, I got mind at Mr. S, but it was many years ago, so it may be a bit restyled since then. You can … Continue readingMr. S Hobble Belt uses, Part 1
This was first posted in December 2025, but I now have a small update of another vendor at the end of this post, in case you were interested. In case you’ve been wondering where you can get your own wooden foot stocks, I got them … Continue readingTFG Tips: Cheeky Urban Wooden Toe/Feet Stocks
Update: First posted in March 2023, there is a larger version of this board that I feel is even better, because it can very nearly fit a full size person lying on it. But it is heavier and a bit bulkier to store. I do … Continue readingTFG Tips: Bondage Board
Thanks to Bluesky, I just ran across a site called Hommi Publishing (Bluesky account is here). For many of you who visit my blog, I do have a big interest in vintage gay pulp, and own a small collection of ones that catch my eye. … Continue readingHommi Publishing: Gay Pulp books, eBooks, and audio(also out of town)
This was originally posted in 2019. So I recently came up with a hack to make Adjustable Spreader Bars even more versatile. This came about because I was tossing around the idea of getting a metal yoke… but didn’t really want the extra expense, nor … Continue readingBondage DIY: Connecting Adjustable Spreader Bars
Update: This was first posted in 2019. They’re still pretty hot to me, though the caps do occasionally fall off. Then a reader shared with me this Spiked Mat (as well as the spikes themselves) that I also enjoy for some foot torture. Doesn’t hurt … Continue readingDIY Foot torture
I’m not 100% sure, but I think the twitter account MrDrainYou created this (if not, please let me know). But I thought it was an interesting way to define where you fall on the slave scale, and what it means. As usual, there’s always an … Continue readingSlave scale
Update: first posted in April 2014, a lot of this is still true. I added a new paragraph for communication. We in the kink community like to “play”. Via Recon, GearFetish, or other sites, we’ll chat with other like minded people, and there’s a connection, … Continue readingTFG: Safety measures for first meets
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