So by the time you have read this, I will have deleted my partner blog of just over 17 years, Captured Heroes. While I am a bit sad about it, it was also time. That blog began as an off-shoot of this one. At the … Continue readingDeleted CapturedHeroes today
While I will no longer be posting found content (for all the reasons I posted about here and here), I do have some alternate recommendations for you. They are all on BlueSky, which is kink friendly (though you do have to sign up for a … Continue readingContent Recommendations
Thought I’d give a few more thoughts and updates since I announced the impending closure of the blog two weeks ago. It’s still closing… sort of. Keep reading below. First of all, if I have it my way, I thinking of sometime this summer. This … Continue readingMore thoughts and updates about blog closure(?)
This has been musing in the back of my mind for a while. I’ve been doing this blog for nearly 20 years. And while it’s mostly been a lot of fun, it may be time to consider winding it down. The impetus for this is … Continue readingAll good things must end sometime
This was floating around on BlueSky, but rather than answer them individually, I thought I’d answer them here! Well, the first fourteen now… the rest later. 🙂 1. On the spectrum from submissive to dominant how do you currently define yourself? At this point in … Continue readingBlueSky Kinky Questionnaire, Part 1
Some of you know that I’ve had a difficult time finding a chastity cage that properly fits me. I have very, very small and tight balls that do not hang low at all, and this means that many cages are either too uncomfortable on my … Continue readingReview: Elastic Black Cobra Chastity Cage
Got this nice message in my email from Nick (posting with the author’s permission): What advice do you have for him? I generally meet foot guys from my Recon profile, and occasionally Fetlife (and this blog, haha!). But do any of you have your own … Continue readingHow do you meet feet?
Saw this post on Bluesky from SELonSwitch, and thought it was worth sharing (and he gave me permission to do so). The main info is posted below, along with some follow up thoughts of his and mine. Some of my own thoughts… do what works … Continue readingDoming 101 (from SELonSwitch)
While I love kinky, sexy pictures, one thing they cannot convey is what is playing in the background during a scene. I’ve discussed this before about songs my husband and I play during a scene, as well as sexy sounds, and sometimes just being in … Continue readingKinky Spotify List
While this is mostly fantasy, and it’s certainly not for everybody, for many, it’s certainly a hot fantasy. Also, even if this isn’t your thing, the first pic is just good dick sucking advice for anyone, and doesn’t have any gay “f” word in it–so … Continue readingBeing a faggot
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