So some time ago, I got to do a scene with my husband for the first time ever. For those of you who have been following this blog for a while, I am happily married, but generally when I do my scenes, I do them alone. My husband is a very, very private guy, and doesn’t like to be public about his kink side. Hence why I don’t mention him too much on my blog (aside from his bondage work on me).
Well, over the last summer, a circumstance came up where we would both be traveling to an area where someone I knew and had talked with for a long time on the old (and now gone) feet.tv site was located. It was sort of a “wish list” sort of guy–super hot, very into bondage, and super hot feet. And he was also open to play. But he said he enjoyed very intricate ropework… which is more my husband’s forte than mine. Interestingly enough, this guy was also married himself, and this allowed for an opening with my own husband. Because he’s always felt if he did meet up with anyone, he’d be more comfortable meeting up with someone else also married. It wouldn’t be about sex at all, just bondage–which the other guy agreed to. Because of all these conditions, a perfect storm lined up where my husband was actually willing to do a scene with me.
We did meet for a social dinner first, so we could all get to know each other a bit first. It was actually quite fun, and a bit surreal to finally be talking and meeting with someone I’ve only known online for so many years. He even showed us a bit around the town, giving us some local’s insight and tips, which were greatly appreciated.
Later, we went back to our hotel room, negotiated a bit more (my husband is very adamant about this, and admittedly, he didn’t know they guy as well as I did), and my husband went to work. As you can see in this preview, my husband does do some great ropework. And aren’t his feet amazing? You’ll have to wait until later to see the full set.
The only small bummer for me is that his feet don’t get smelly at all. Still, with that shape and texture, I wasn’t complaining. I was honestly a bit surprised that my husband didn’t mind me licking his feet with him right there. He isn’t the jealous type at all, but it was still a bit odd somehow anyway. Plus, my husband isn’t into feet at all himself (he just indulges my fetish, and it’s a part of the reason he tolerates me doing other scenes). Also, no cocks came out at all… this was just bondage, some light over the clothes teasing, and a bit of nipple play on him (he also happens to enjoy that a lot as well). So no one came during the scene.
As for my husband, he did enjoy doing the ropework a lot, and the guy enjoyed being tied up. Myself, I tend to be more of a “tie me up quick and get me off fast” sort of guy, and not always patient for a intricate ropework scene, as they can take a lot of time to do. In that sense it was a great match.
And as it turned out, my husband got summoned back to that same area about a month later for work (without me). And as it turns out, they had one more bondage scene. So clearly, both had a great time. Perhaps one day, I’ll post those pics later on. (Sadly, no further travel plans for either of us to that area in the near future.)
That said, after some reflection, my husband still isn’t entirely comfortable meeting others. He did agree this guy was very nice and very cool… the issue is his own. It’s just not really in his comfort zone to have scenes with other guys. He may be open to this guy again should our paths cross, since he’s already had two experiences with him, and limits were all respected. But not really sure if many other future meets are in his future. Still, I give him a lot of credit for being game and trying it at least once.
