I don’t usually answer these sorts of things, but I liked this one. And instead of making it interactive, I’ll just answer the questions a few at a time over the next few weeks.
- When did you lose your virginity?
I was actually a late bloomer… I was 21, and it was vanilla sex. Keep in mind this was well before the internet and social media, and in the days of phone chat lines and newspaper personal ads. I put out an ad seeking a “Discrete Adventure”, and I got a response from a 40 yo guy. He was super nice, and we had a pretty casual off and on FWB relationship for a couple of years. All vanilla, and all oral. He regaled me with tales of meeting and having sex with guys he barely knew, which really blew my mind at the time, as I was way too shy to try anything like that.
2. Rough sex or soft sex?
I mean… rough, within limits. But soft sex, or feet only with JO is also just fine with me.
3. Do you have any unusual kinds/fetishes?
Well, around here I don’t consider feet or bondage all that unusual, haha. It’s also no secret I’m into lycra and superhero play (mostly Spiderman and Robin), and verbal. I do also enjoy CBT, chastity at times, and while I haven’t done a whole lot of it, I’d be really into gunge play and bastinado. And I’m not into it directly, but if a sub enjoys it, I can also get into ABDL, tickling, piss play, and even mild scat play (provided I’m the dom).
4. Weirdest place you’ve had sex?
I’m pretty dull here, and not all that risky. My husband gave me head in a car in a casino parking lot, and I jerked off in a public park once. But that’s about it.
5. Favorite sex position?
Vanilla-wise, I don’t really have any… just suck my dick, lol. Bondage-wise, I love my sleepsack or spread eagle. But I love seeing subs in hogties or bound standing up.
6. Do you like to be dominant or submissive?
I’m really beginning to take to the dom role. But I can certainly enjoy being submissive. However, it would have to be with someone I really know and trust.
7. Have you ever had any one night stands?
Not really… I’ve known most of the guys I’ve had sex with. Even on Recon, I chat will guys for a while before meeting with them.
8. Sex on the bed, couch, or floor?
I’m traditional, I generally like the bed. It’s comfortable and offers up many tie down points. Floor, for an extended period of time, would probably hurt my back… unless I was using my bondage board.
9. Have you ever had sex in a public place?
Aside from those mentioned in #4, none come to mind.
10. Have you ever been caught masturbating?
Not really. As a child, my parents would knock on the door, causing some close calls, but I don’t think I was ever outright caught. Though one funny story… as a kid (maybe about 13), I had a Spiderman action figure, the size of a Barbie doll. I loved tying it up all the time. Once, I got myself hard and tied the doll around my dick. Before I knew it, I shot a load… the first time I had knowingly shot. Literally seconds after I shot, the phone rang, and on reflex I answered it, and it was an army recruiter doing a pitch. I talked to him to whole time with the Spiderman doll still tied around my dick.
Next time, #11-20!
