Sadly, I can’t remember where I ran across this (if anyone can find the source, please let me know), but I think these are pretty sensible ideas.
Online, we often get caught up in the fantasy, and things like “no limits,” “24/7,” and “owned” are indeed hot in an abstract concept. But in a real life scene, there needs to be more negotiation. And I think the rules listed below are, while not necessarily sexy, are important and realistic.
looks like a fagwiki (https://www.fagwiki.com/fag-wiki) post, but the site has been down for like a month or so