I asked this on Bluesky, but thought I’d also as here: I’m interested in getting a chest harness, but I’m not super built… what style would be a good fit for me as a Dom?
I have a “Stable boy” harness I bought years ago, which I like, but I wonder if I can do better… or do I wear that one well?
It’s tricky, because I’m not super built in terms of defined abs. So I’m not sure what would look best on me. Below are some options I saw both at Mr. S (top pic) and Stockroom (bottom) pic.
My own inclinations would be something with a bit of color (although I have no idea what color would be best, or even if colors represent anything), and something on the unique side. I appreciate asymmetry (like the Slingshot seen in Mr. S, or the The Champion seen in Stockroom).
I was once touring a local arts community, and found a fetish artist and fell in love with the look of this harness… but I also feel it may be too large for me.
And something that reflects me, such as my interests in feet, Spiderman, and/or Robin would always be welcome. I do remember I once got to meet addictedtoropes (also on Twitter) at Fetish Week London (FWL) in 2024, and he had on a Batman/Robin harness.
Also, is there a difference between a harness for Doms, versus one for subs? As far as I can tell, there doesn’t really seem to be any difference, but any advice on that end would also be welcome.
