Saw this on twitter, and thought it was pretty wise. I’ve included the pics on the post for easier reading, and included his “Bonus” post, as well as a quick follow up thought.
I think these are all great pieces of advice (I can’t speak to #3, but it makes a lot of sense to me). I really center my kinky meets with tip #4, I like to discuss with a sub what they’re into, and do my best to accommodate them. And I’ll be frank about what I am, and not, experienced in, so that expectations are reasonable.
The only thing I’d really add to this is for tip #8, where just saying “Hi” is fine. It totally is! But I personally don’t want the message to end there, because after I “Hi” back, then what? Try to create a point of engagement to keep the conversation going. Something like, “Hi, I found your profile interesting because I also like/want to try x and y.”
