If you’ve been following the blog for a while, you may know that 1) it took me a long time to get into the chastity game, and 2) it’s been extremely difficult for me to find a cage that both fit properly and is comfortable.
I may be in a minority, but for the sake of all those who may be in my same position, I have very high and tight balls. They do not hang low at all. And while I do like CBT, even my own husband often has difficulty in just tying up my balls or using a ball parachute , because I will either slip out, or it will be so tight it’ll be uncomfortable in a bad way.
So, this problem definitely affects my search for a proper chastity device. After a lot of trial and error, I did settle on the two most comfortable devices as the Ice Cage (from Cobra) and Holy Trainer.
However, on both, even on the smallest ring setting (the park that goes around the balls), I would still have my balls slip out of them with fair regularity. Moreso on the Ice (which was the more comfortable cage for me, so that was especially disappointing), but even quite a bit with the Holy Trainer.
And yes, I do know it’s possible to stretch balls… but that’s a long term solution that I honestly don’t have the patience or discipline for.
The solution came to me when I ordered the Elastic Cage. While that cage was a bit bulkier, I notice that I hadn’t escaped it… and after examining it more closely, I believed it was because the space between the ring and the cage was smaller.
This gave me an idea. A long time ago, in an effort to work on my balls a bit, I bought some silicone cock & ball rings that I thought I’d instead wrap around my balls to try to stretch a bit (needless to say, that didn’t work, haha).
But I did suddenly think: what if I used one as a sort of “second” ring to trap my balls a bit further? And you know what? So far, it’s been totally successful. I have the comfort of the Ice Cage, but I haven’t yet slipped out. I choose a silicone ring that is essentially the same size as the chastity ring, and layer them on top of each other. And when putting the cage on, I just pretend it’s one big ring, slipping both my cock and balls though both. I place it just below where the two pieces lock together.
So far, it’s still been working great! Obviously, your own milage may vary. But I wanted to throw this option out there. Even if you don’t have small balls, finding other ways to connect a device with rubber cock and ball rings could be worth exploring.
Also, there was a fairly recent video of Watts the Safeword where they discuss how to make chastity work, seen below (or linked here).
