Good thing I waited a bit before discussing this issue… you probably had already heard that one of the main blogging platforms, Blogger, had announced about a week ago that they were going to essentially shut down all the adult content blogs (and while we … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Blogger back to adults
A reader, who was going back to some of my” faggot” posts (here, here, here, and here), was wondering what my opinion was about Cash Masters. If you don’t know what they are, I imagine you probably have seen them. Often, they portray themselves as … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Cash Masters
This topic comes up quite a bit on Grindr, which I think brought the issue to the forefront. How many times have we seen “No Asians” and “No Blacks” on Grindr? More than I’d like to, that’s for sure. But I think there are a … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Racism in Gay Porn
So last week, I outlined some of the frustrations of feelings of inadequacy in the bondage community. The sense that no matter how much experience you have, there’s always more to do. And that we tend to focus on what we haven’t done instead of … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Keeping up with the Bondage Joneses, Part 2
Sometimes when athletes train, they are told, “No matter how good you are, there’s always someone better.” Sometimes, bondage can feel the same way. No matter what we’ve done, all we can often think about is what we haven’t done and still want to try, … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Keeping up with the Bondage Joneses, Part 1
When I visit many kink blogs, or listen to the No Safe Word podcast, I often hear the word “headspace” used. And I think it’s an interesting term, because while I feel I have a basic understanding for what it is, I can’t say I’ve … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Headspace (from a novice point of view)
Bisexuality is a topic that doesn’t often seem to come up in the gay bondage world. Personally, I don’t consider myself bisexual. But I do feel quite certain there are a lot of guys that do consider themselves bisexual. And I know many of you … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Bisexual Discrimination
So I’m mentioned my thoughts on the word “faggot” many times before. And I recently came across a great quote that ideally describes my attitudes about it: I’m just huge into degradation in the bedroom. If I’m not dominating you – you need to be … Continue readingAnother “Faggot” post
My little post last week really affected a few people. I got a number of responses the same day I posted it, and with their permission, I’m sharing some of them here. Sparkles J. Dog wrote: The blog was called “Master and His Slave” I … Continue readingTFG follow up: Despression in subs
So a couple of weeks ago, this article appeared in my local paper. http://articles.latimes.com/2014/feb/26/local/la-me-foot-fetish-arrest-20140227 In case you can’t access it, or it’s down by now, I’ll quickly summarize. This article talks about how a guy at a roller skating rink got arrested for engaging in … Continue readingFoot Fetishist Arrested
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