I recently got this question recently in an email (quoted with permission from the author): I have a bit of a personal question if you don’t mine me asking. I’m 25 and very tired of dating vanilla guys and I’d like to get in touch … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Meeting other kinksters
There’s been quite a bit of gay news in the mainstream media lately, and I’d like to share my personal views on a few of them. I hope you can leave a comment, but that still be having some technical issues, so if it doesn’t … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Gay Political Thoughts
(UPDATE below) So I’ve talked about this before (initially here and a follow up here), and after some time, I think I’ve now realized that I sort of enjoy calling slaves faggots. I’ve actually been talking with my favorite (cyber) slave, SBS_justin, for a long … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Coming to terms with FAGGOT
Slowly but surely. I’m certainly still no expert (partially because I don’t practice enough–any volunteers?), but it’s better than it was. I actually tied my BF the other night. I bound his wrists behind his back. Then with a separate rope, bound his biceps together, … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: My ropework is improving!
I think one thing that can sometimes make the kink community a little intimidating is that is seems there’s a lot of people who seem to center their entire lives around it. Absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what makes them happy. But … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: There’s more to life
So most people visit blogs and tumblrs such as mine to get turned on. Maybe get ideas for the next big night out. I do think all the pics I post here are incredibly sexy. But at the same time, taken as a whole, they … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: The Reality of Sex
So I am a big fan of Halloween haunts. Living here in Southern California, there’s quite an abundance of them. The original theme park haunt, Knott’s Berry Farm, is quite a classic. Lately, I’ve been enjoying Halloween Horror Nights at Universal Studios. Often times, these … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Halloween is my favorite time of year
So I’m coming to terms with the fact that I live two entirely separate lives. In one, I’m a respected guy with a great boyfriend and great job. I have nerdy hobbies, and watch tv. Nothing out of the ordinary. In the other, I run … Continue readingTFG: Living Two Lives/Secret Identity
“Fag” and “Faggot” are really loaded words. Highly offensive to most gays, and rightly so. I know I would never want to hear it uttered in most situations. It’s one of the most hateful things a gay man can be called, and there’s usually no … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: FAGGOT!
I realize most guys would prefer the real thing. But I suppose in my situation, being happily partnered, I almost prefer the relative safety and distance of an online Master/slave relationship. I find it quite easy to be a Master online. Maybe because I can … Continue readingThoughts of an Online Master: Why I enjoy it so much
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