I got a very kind reply to my earlier post about staying hard during a scene (and my occasional difficulty in doing so). With his permission (and name redacted), I’m sharing it below: You are a great kink muse. It is so refreshing to have … Continue readingReader Response: Keeping it up; New Galleries
So quite a while ago, I posted a few articles about gay pulp fiction (here and here), as well as my fantastic visit to Kayo Books in San Francisco. Once I saw the cover of the above book, I became obsessed. I had to get … Continue readingTFG Review: Adventures of a High School… Molester?
It’s time to confess something. In terms of getting off, I’ve always been a quickie. Even in terms of my kinks. Meaning I generally don’t care for long term bondage (an hour is long enough for me), and when I jerk off, I’m typically done … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Keeping it up
Good thing I waited a bit before discussing this issue… you probably had already heard that one of the main blogging platforms, Blogger, had announced about a week ago that they were going to essentially shut down all the adult content blogs (and while we … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Blogger back to adults
A reader, who was going back to some of my” faggot” posts (here, here, here, and here), was wondering what my opinion was about Cash Masters. If you don’t know what they are, I imagine you probably have seen them. Often, they portray themselves as … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Cash Masters
This topic comes up quite a bit on Grindr, which I think brought the issue to the forefront. How many times have we seen “No Asians” and “No Blacks” on Grindr? More than I’d like to, that’s for sure. But I think there are a … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Racism in Gay Porn
So last week, I outlined some of the frustrations of feelings of inadequacy in the bondage community. The sense that no matter how much experience you have, there’s always more to do. And that we tend to focus on what we haven’t done instead of … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Keeping up with the Bondage Joneses, Part 2
Sometimes when athletes train, they are told, “No matter how good you are, there’s always someone better.” Sometimes, bondage can feel the same way. No matter what we’ve done, all we can often think about is what we haven’t done and still want to try, … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Keeping up with the Bondage Joneses, Part 1
When I visit many kink blogs, or listen to the No Safe Word podcast, I often hear the word “headspace” used. And I think it’s an interesting term, because while I feel I have a basic understanding for what it is, I can’t say I’ve … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Headspace (from a novice point of view)
Bisexuality is a topic that doesn’t often seem to come up in the gay bondage world. Personally, I don’t consider myself bisexual. But I do feel quite certain there are a lot of guys that do consider themselves bisexual. And I know many of you … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Bisexual Discrimination
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