When I visit many kink blogs, or listen to the No Safe Word podcast, I often hear the word “headspace” used. And I think it’s an interesting term, because while I feel I have a basic understanding for what it is, I can’t say I’ve … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Headspace (from a novice point of view)
Bisexuality is a topic that doesn’t often seem to come up in the gay bondage world. Personally, I don’t consider myself bisexual. But I do feel quite certain there are a lot of guys that do consider themselves bisexual. And I know many of you … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Bisexual Discrimination
So I’m mentioned my thoughts on the word “faggot” many times before. And I recently came across a great quote that ideally describes my attitudes about it: I’m just huge into degradation in the bedroom. If I’m not dominating you – you need to be … Continue readingAnother “Faggot” post
My little post last week really affected a few people. I got a number of responses the same day I posted it, and with their permission, I’m sharing some of them here. Sparkles J. Dog wrote: The blog was called “Master and His Slave” I … Continue readingTFG follow up: Despression in subs
So a couple of weeks ago, this article appeared in my local paper. http://articles.latimes.com/2014/feb/26/local/la-me-foot-fetish-arrest-20140227 In case you can’t access it, or it’s down by now, I’ll quickly summarize. This article talks about how a guy at a roller skating rink got arrested for engaging in … Continue readingFoot Fetishist Arrested
I recently got this question recently in an email (quoted with permission from the author): I have a bit of a personal question if you don’t mine me asking. I’m 25 and very tired of dating vanilla guys and I’d like to get in touch … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Meeting other kinksters
There’s been quite a bit of gay news in the mainstream media lately, and I’d like to share my personal views on a few of them. I hope you can leave a comment, but that still be having some technical issues, so if it doesn’t … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Gay Political Thoughts
(UPDATE below) So I’ve talked about this before (initially here and a follow up here), and after some time, I think I’ve now realized that I sort of enjoy calling slaves faggots. I’ve actually been talking with my favorite (cyber) slave, SBS_justin, for a long … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Coming to terms with FAGGOT
Slowly but surely. I’m certainly still no expert (partially because I don’t practice enough–any volunteers?), but it’s better than it was. I actually tied my BF the other night. I bound his wrists behind his back. Then with a separate rope, bound his biceps together, … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: My ropework is improving!
I think one thing that can sometimes make the kink community a little intimidating is that is seems there’s a lot of people who seem to center their entire lives around it. Absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what makes them happy. But … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: There’s more to life
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