It’s something I’ve sometimes wondered because of a childhood experience that I’ve never forgotten. When I was a pre-teen, like most budding young boys in the time before there was an internet, I sneaked into my father’s bedroom drawers to see if he had any … Continue readingTFG Early Influences–Can a foot fetish be hereditary?
I’ve always been surprised by the relatively large number of straight guys that contact me on this site. Somehow, my blog has become a safe haven for them to explore. It does help that I’m in a committed relationship, so I do make it clear … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: The Straight Whisperer
In this Trump era, it’s easy to find hate all around us. But it’s equally easy to find hate within our own community. I was recently catching up on the new show Pose, which is about the underground gay/drag/ball scene in 80’s New York. In … Continue readingTolerance within the community
I ran across this post on a tumbr from my friend, The SideKink. With his permission, I’m reposting it below. Kink and Loneliness Something has been swimming around in my mind of late. The idea of loneliness. It’s not often talked about when people … Continue readingSideKink: Loneliness
I’ve always been a big fan of horror movies, and used to subscribe to a magazine called Fangoria. (It’s still around digitally, but not in print.) Often, they would mention movies that were not in wide release, but noteworthy. One was called Society, made in … Continue readingSociety movie (1986)–a hot and gay(?) influence
When I meet people for scenes, I actually prefer beginners and newbies. It’s for two reasons. One, I do honestly enjoy and get a charge out of seeing a guy go through his first kink experience. It really makes me excited. Two, I felt I … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: More experienced than I thought?
So you may know, but I’m a bit of a Halloween aficionado (see here, here, here, here, here, and a small essay comparing inquisition techniques and modern day kinks here). I absolutely love haunted house attractions, and love to visit all kinds. I also enjoy … Continue readingAlone haunt gave me confidence
I was talking with a self-confessed newbie on Recon, when he brought up this question, as with my response: I think this is a great question, and it’s good to get this info out there. This is my general policy, especially when meeting a person … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: The Start of a Scene
So I’ve always been a guy into twinks, even when I was younger myself. My interests haven’t changed, but obviously I’ve gotten older. And believe it or not, but I do not lie about my age. As I write this now, I am 46. I … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Getting Called Daddy
So as many of you know, I do often enjoy engaging in cyber play. I imagine much of the active kink community may generally look down upon this, assuming a real life experience is superior. To a certain degree, I do agree, and I have … Continue readingCyber improved my verbal
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