For something different this year, I thought I’d highlight my personal favorite posts that I wrote over the year. Every Sunday, I try to post some thoughts, news, or life experiences of my own. These are a few that I still enjoy… I hope you’ll … Continue readingFavorite personal posts from 2018
With tumblr now gone, where have most kinky bloggers gone? Well, it’s been a scramble, with no real clear consensus. Most have migrated to twitter. It’s a pretty easy transition, as many kinky blogs had a twitter account anyway. Now it can get more use. … Continue readingbdsmlr.com?
So while I love the look and feel of male feet, my personal favorite is the smell. And while levels of stink vary–some guys like little to no smell, others super rank, and many somewhere in-between–I lean way more to the super rank side. A … Continue readingTFG Thought: Smell more than lick
I recently saw this cartoon on twitter from BoomerSM (I’ll be featuring more of his work later), and was immediately struck by it. Gear is great, not gonna lie. But this really struck me, because I think it reflects on how I Dom. Let me … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: It’s more than the look
NOTE: While the events in this post are true, some of the events described in this post are not things I necessarily condone. It is not meant to be read as an endorsement of such behaviors, just a discussion about them, and perhaps how to … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: Being pushed beyond limits?
It’s something I’ve sometimes wondered because of a childhood experience that I’ve never forgotten. When I was a pre-teen, like most budding young boys in the time before there was an internet, I sneaked into my father’s bedroom drawers to see if he had any … Continue readingTFG Early Influences–Can a foot fetish be hereditary?
I’ve always been surprised by the relatively large number of straight guys that contact me on this site. Somehow, my blog has become a safe haven for them to explore. It does help that I’m in a committed relationship, so I do make it clear … Continue readingTFG Thoughts: The Straight Whisperer
In this Trump era, it’s easy to find hate all around us. But it’s equally easy to find hate within our own community. I was recently catching up on the new show Pose, which is about the underground gay/drag/ball scene in 80’s New York. In … Continue readingTolerance within the community
I ran across this post on a tumbr from my friend, The SideKink. With his permission, I’m reposting it below. Kink and Loneliness Something has been swimming around in my mind of late. The idea of loneliness. It’s not often talked about when people … Continue readingSideKink: Loneliness
I’ve always been a big fan of horror movies, and used to subscribe to a magazine called Fangoria. (It’s still around digitally, but not in print.) Often, they would mention movies that were not in wide release, but noteworthy. One was called Society, made in … Continue readingSociety movie (1986)–a hot and gay(?) influence
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