A while ago, I saw this post on James T. Medak’s Bluesky (if it doesn’t load for you, the main pic is the header image for this post):
Had a pretty good birthday, but couldn't really go anywhere…
— James T. Medak (@jamestmedak.bsky.social) March 23, 2025 at 9:57 PM
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I was instantly intrigued. When I messaged him, he did say that for him, the wrist portions of the restraints were very tight… so I was wary. But given what the device did and for the price (seen below on Amazon at the time of this post), I thought it was worth a try. Note it comes in two different sizes, so you have to specify that when ordering. I got the larger, as the smaller seems more for women.
While obviously results will vary from person to person, the wrist restraints were fine for me, and fine for the sub I used it on. And if you didn’t notice, I also discovered you can use it as a sort of fiddle, as seen in the first pic.
In fact, this sub had the opposite problem… with some work, he was able to pull his wrists out of the restraints entirely. One remedy to this could be to simply attach (clips, carabiner, rope, handcuffs, or a padlock) wrist restraints to the wrist clip.
One other safety issue came up that should be noted… while the sub was on his knees seen above, after a bit, he accidentally fell over, and not in a fun way. He was totally fine, but it could have been bad as he obviously can’t really brace for a fall should a sub fall forward (in our case, it was a bit more to the side, but still scary). So be certain the sub is carefully looked after, and maybe do some extra bracing so something like that doesn’t happen.
