I grew up in a household where there was nearly always some sort of audio noise on in the background. The TV was on constantly,…
View More TFG Thoughts: Music during sexTFG Thoughts: Is “That’s so gay” offensive?
Language is ever-evolving. New words are constantly being added, and current words take on new meanings. Gay is now one of those words. Despite what…
View More TFG Thoughts: Is “That’s so gay” offensive?TFG Thoughts: My ropework is improving!
Slowly but surely. I’m certainly still no expert (partially because I don’t practice enough–any volunteers?), but it’s better than it was. I actually tied my…
View More TFG Thoughts: My ropework is improving!TFG Thoughts: There’s more to life
I think one thing that can sometimes make the kink community a little intimidating is that is seems there’s a lot of people who seem…
View More TFG Thoughts: There’s more to lifeTFG Thoughts: The Reality of Sex
So most people visit blogs and tumblrs such as mine to get turned on. Maybe get ideas for the next big night out. I do…
View More TFG Thoughts: The Reality of SexTFG Thoughts: Halloween is my favorite time of year
So I am a big fan of Halloween haunts. Living here in Southern California, there’s quite an abundance of them. The original theme park haunt,…
View More TFG Thoughts: Halloween is my favorite time of yearTFG: Living Two Lives/Secret Identity
So I’m coming to terms with the fact that I live two entirely separate lives. In one, I’m a respected guy with a great boyfriend…
View More TFG: Living Two Lives/Secret IdentityTFG Thoughts: FAGGOT!
“Fag” and “Faggot” are really loaded words. Highly offensive to most gays, and rightly so. I know I would never want to hear it uttered…
View More TFG Thoughts: FAGGOT!Thoughts of an Online Master: Why I enjoy it so much
I realize most guys would prefer the real thing. But I suppose in my situation, being happily partnered, I almost prefer the relative safety and…
View More Thoughts of an Online Master: Why I enjoy it so muchAm I a sub or a Dom?
With the increasing popularity of my blog comes more requests from guys who want me to tie them up. Which I find interesting, because in…
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