Sometimes when athletes train, they are told, “No matter how good you are, there’s always someone better.” Sometimes, bondage can feel the same way. No…
View More TFG Thoughts: Keeping up with the Bondage Joneses, Part 1TFG Thoughts: Headspace (from a novice point of view)
When I visit many kink blogs, or listen to the No Safe Word podcast, I often hear the word “headspace” used. And I think it’s…
View More TFG Thoughts: Headspace (from a novice point of view)TFG Thoughts: Bisexual Discrimination
Bisexuality is a topic that doesn’t often seem to come up in the gay bondage world. Personally, I don’t consider myself bisexual. But I do…
View More TFG Thoughts: Bisexual DiscriminationAnother “Faggot” post
So I’m mentioned my thoughts on the word “faggot” many times before. And I recently came across a great quote that ideally describes my attitudes…
View More Another “Faggot” postTFG follow up: Despression in subs
My little post last week really affected a few people. I got a number of responses the same day I posted it, and with their…
View More TFG follow up: Despression in subsFoot Fetishist Arrested
So a couple of weeks ago, this article appeared in my local paper. http://articles.latimes.com/2014/feb/26/local/la-me-foot-fetish-arrest-20140227 In case you can’t access it, or it’s down by now,…
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TFG Thoughts: Meeting other kinksters
I recently got this question recently in an email (quoted with permission from the author): I have a bit of a personal question if you…
View More TFG Thoughts: Meeting other kinkstersTFG Thoughts: Gay Political Thoughts
There’s been quite a bit of gay news in the mainstream media lately, and I’d like to share my personal views on a few of…
View More TFG Thoughts: Gay Political ThoughtsTFG Thoughts: Coming to terms with FAGGOT
(UPDATE below) So I’ve talked about this before (initially here and a follow up here), and after some time, I think I’ve now realized that…
View More TFG Thoughts: Coming to terms with FAGGOTTFG Thoughts: Turn Offs
I’d say I’m a pretty open minded kinky guy. And most kinky gay men seem to be pretty receptive to new fetishes, even if they’re…
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