For something different this year, I thought I’d highlight my personal favorite posts that I wrote over the year. Every Sunday, I try to post…
View More Favorite personal posts from 2018bdsmlr.com?
With tumblr now gone, where have most kinky bloggers gone? Well, it’s been a scramble, with no real clear consensus. Most have migrated to twitter. …
View More bdsmlr.com?TFG Thought: Smell more than lick
So while I love the look and feel of male feet, my personal favorite is the smell. And while levels of stink vary–some guys like…
View More TFG Thought: Smell more than lickTFG Thoughts: It’s more than the look
I recently saw this cartoon on twitter from BoomerSM (I’ll be featuring more of his work later), and was immediately struck by it. Gear is…
View More TFG Thoughts: It’s more than the lookTFG Thoughts: Being pushed beyond limits?
NOTE: While the events in this post are true, some of the events described in this post are not things I necessarily condone. It is…
View More TFG Thoughts: Being pushed beyond limits?TFG Early Influences–Can a foot fetish be hereditary?
It’s something I’ve sometimes wondered because of a childhood experience that I’ve never forgotten. When I was a pre-teen, like most budding young boys in…
View More TFG Early Influences–Can a foot fetish be hereditary?TFG Thoughts: The Straight Whisperer
I’ve always been surprised by the relatively large number of straight guys that contact me on this site. Somehow, my blog has become a safe…
View More TFG Thoughts: The Straight WhispererTolerance within the community
In this Trump era, it’s easy to find hate all around us. But it’s equally easy to find hate within our own community. I was…
View More Tolerance within the communitySideKink: Loneliness
I ran across this post on a tumbr from my friend, The SideKink. With his permission, I’m reposting it below. Kink and Loneliness Something…
View More SideKink: LonelinessTFG Thoughts: More experienced than I thought?
When I meet people for scenes, I actually prefer beginners and newbies. It’s for two reasons. One, I do honestly enjoy and get a charge…
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